I was enjoying a quiet afternoon at my favorite coffee shop when I overheard a conversation that made me cringe. A woman, impeccably dressed in tailored trousers and with perfectly styled hair, greeted her friend with enthusiasm. “It’s so great to see you! How have you been? What’s new with you?”
The friend smiled back, but her response struck a nerve. “I’ve been good, busy of course, but good. After my little one was born, I decided to stay home, and now I’m just a stay-at-home mom.” With a slight shrug and an apologetic glance, she downplayed her role.
Just. Just. Just.
Why do we keep using that word? I’m here to urge all mothers to drop the “just” when referring to their roles. It’s time to recognize the significance of what we do. You’re nurturing a child, for goodness’ sake! There’s nothing “just” about it.
Consider this: when does anyone else say “just” before their profession? You don’t hear doctors, engineers, or artists introducing themselves like that, do you? Instead, they speak confidently about their careers. Yet, many mothers unconsciously belittle themselves with that tiny, dismissive word.
Interestingly, I’ve never heard a stay-at-home dad say, “I’m just a stay-at-home dad.” They typically express their roles with pride and confidence, listing the various responsibilities they handle at home without hesitation. They understand that staying home is hard work, and they own it.
Mothers, it’s time to embrace your role whole-heartedly. Speak about your commitment with the same confidence that dads do. Whether you hold a GED or a PhD, your contribution as a stay-at-home mom deserves respect and admiration.
Let’s support each other as women. The next time you hear someone say, “I’m just a stay-at-home mom” or “I just work part-time,” pause them and say, “I know you are not just anything.” Remember, women before us fought hard for the right to choose our paths, and we should honor that legacy instead of downplaying our choices.
No one is here to feel insignificant. We all matter in this grand tapestry of life. Stand united, ladies, and let’s celebrate the important work we do every day.
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In summary, let’s eliminate the word “just” from our vocabulary when describing our roles as mothers. Stand tall and proud in your choices, because they are anything but insignificant.