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Distance is Irrelevant When It Comes to Genuine Friendships
Updated: Jan. 29, 2020
Originally Published: Sep. 16, 2017
In earlier times, forming friendships was relatively uncomplicated. While disagreements and conflicts arose—after all, relationships can be challenging—friendships flourished effortlessly. They often revolved around simple activities, such as walking home from school together, sharing desks in class, or living in close proximity in college dorms.
I long for those uncomplicated days when friendship meant easily dropping by with a bottle of wine or simply sitting together in comfort, sharing laughter and tears without the burden of time constraints. We could talk for hours about trivial topics or enjoy the silence, as we understood each other completely. I miss the days of shared routines, like our weekly TV show marathons or meetups at our favorite local bar.
In contrast, modern friendships often feel more demanding. Instead of a short stroll across the hall, meeting a friend may require extensive travel. Juggling work commitments and family responsibilities often leaves us with scant time to connect. By the end of the day, exhaustion sets in, making even a quick phone call seem overwhelming. Consequently, genuine communication is replaced with sporadic texts and social media updates, and by the time we reunite, there’s an overwhelming amount to catch up on.
Today’s friendships differ significantly. We find ourselves interacting more with acquaintances, neighbors, and the parents of our children’s friends. While these relationships are pleasant and necessary—often blossoming into deeper connections—they lack the depth and authenticity of true friendships. Casual conversations during long kid’s sports events or group playdates do not compare to the intimacy of heartfelt discussions with a lifelong friend.
As I grow older, my appreciation for authentic connections intensifies. I desire friendships rooted in loyalty and trust, where I can be vulnerable without fear of judgment. I want to be able to reach out, whether in moments of joy or sorrow, and to share those little things that matter—like asking for the name of an actress from a beloved movie at 2 a.m.
What I seek are a few steadfast friendships, not a multitude of superficial connections. I want to know that distance—whether ten minutes or a thousand miles—will not diminish our bond. True friendships endure challenges, providing support when life becomes difficult.
True friendship transcends simplicity; it thrives on authenticity, understanding, and unwavering support. Genuine friends know us intimately, understanding our past to better grasp our present and actively participate in our future.
Let us celebrate those true friends who traverse the distance. These individuals withstand the test of time and stand by us during both the highs and lows, making life feel a little more manageable, even when friendship becomes challenging.
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In summary, true friendships remain invaluable, unaffected by time or distance, and should be nurtured alongside the pursuit of parenthood.