Throughout my life, my family has recognized me as a profoundly sensitive individual. This sensitivity extends beyond occasional tears; it encompasses a deep emotional resonance with those around me. From a young age, I have absorbed the sentiments and energies of others, whether joyful or sorrowful.
I recall an incident from kindergarten vividly. My friend, Clara, stumbled on the playground and scraped her knee, which caused her to cry out in distress. I felt an overwhelming urge to comfort her, yet I was gripped by a sense of helplessness as I witnessed her pain. My heart raced as I struggled to calm her down. Despite my attempts—hugs, soothing words—I found myself unable to alleviate her fear. Ultimately, I lay beside her, holding her hand, and began to cry, too. When the teachers intervened, they mistakenly assumed we had been involved in a collision and took us both to the school nurse. At the end of the day, the nurse informed my mother about the “incident,” noting that while I appeared upset, I had no physical injuries.
My mother, knowing me well, didn’t find this surprising. She expressed gratitude to the nurse and, on the way home, treated me to ice cream. She inquired about my feelings regarding Clara’s fall, treating my emotional distress as if it were my own injury. She intuitively recognized that I was more than just a highly sensitive person; she understood I was an empath.
The Distinction Between Sensitivity and Empathy
The distinction between being highly sensitive and an empath is crucial. Judith Orloff, MD, author of The Empath’s Survival Guide, suggests that human sensitivity exists on a spectrum. At one end are empaths—the most sensitive individuals. In the middle are highly sensitive and empathetic people, while the far left comprises those with “empath-deficient disorders,” like narcissists and sociopaths.
As a child, I didn’t grasp why my friend’s pain affected me so deeply. Now, I understand that empaths possess the unique ability to absorb emotional and physical energies from others. This phenomenon, often dismissed as mere sensitivity, is a profound connection to the human experience.
Exploring the Concept of Empathy
Let’s explore this concept further. While it might sound unconventional, various Eastern healing traditions have long recognized the existence of subtle energies surrounding us, often referred to as shakti or prana. In contemporary terms, these could be equated to “vibes.” Recent studies have validated the notion of so-called “contagious emotions,” reaffirming what many of us have inherently known.
Empaths don’t simply empathize with others; we internalize their emotions, leading to an intense experience that can blur the lines between our feelings and those of others. This transfer of energy is what I term superhuman empathy. Yet, this gift comes with significant challenges.
The Challenges of Being an Empath
In a world rife with suffering, empaths often experience emotional fatigue and depression. The weight of global events, distressing news, or even unsettling social media content can feel overwhelming, as we struggle to compartmentalize these emotions. Our deep connections to others mean we care profoundly, which can lead to being labeled as overly sensitive or dramatic. Yet, as writer Raven Fon aptly states, “Empaths aren’t ‘too’ this or that. What others describe as ‘over-feeling’ is really just being in touch with emotions — theirs and yours.”
You may find yourself relating to this experience, either as someone who rolls their eyes at such sentiments or as a fellow empath who intuitively understands the duality of this existence. If you often find strangers opening up to you or sharing their life stories within moments of meeting, you may also share this unique sensitivity.
Though it can be challenging to navigate this world as an empath, it’s reassuring to know that you are not alone. There are many like you who share in the struggle and the strength that comes with being an empath.
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Summary
Being an empath is both a profound gift and a significant challenge. Empaths absorb the emotions and energies of those around them, leading to intense emotional experiences. While this heightened sensitivity allows for deep connections with others, it can also result in emotional exhaustion and the perception of being overly sensitive. There are many who share this experience, and recognizing this can provide comfort and connection within a world that often feels overwhelming.