Over the past few years, I’ve been fortunate to cultivate wonderful friendships with fellow moms and maintain connections with long-time friends, many of whom have also embraced motherhood. I cherish my strong family bonds with remarkable women who are incredible moms in their own right. With this in mind, I want to take a moment to extend my sincerest apologies to all of you who have been there for me.
I apologize if you’ve ever felt like I wasn’t fully present during our conversations. Please know that I am listening, but my attention is often divided by the sounds of children in the background—children who are not my own. It’s likely that my toddler has decided to “share” toys with another little one, which, in toddler logic, means snatching it back when someone else shows interest. Ah, the complexities of a toddler’s mind!
I’m sorry if my gaze wanders while we chat. I assure you, I see you. I’m just also keeping an eye out for my little one, who might be attempting to climb the coffee shop’s bookcase and surprise his sleeping sibling with an unexpected stunt.
I apologize if my speech is punctuated by urgent calls for my toddler, as I promise I’ll get back to our conversation in a moment. I’m in the middle of a game of “find the toddler,” which often results in a mini panic attack as I search for him, only to discover he’s hidden himself away in a box.
I’m sorry if I abruptly leap across the room while you’re sharing your day with me. I care deeply about what you’re saying. However, I’m also on a mission to teach my child how to navigate the world and treat others kindly. This sometimes involves apologizing on his behalf when he accidentally upsets another child during his latest dinosaur reenactment.
I apologize if you’ve noticed that I missed your call, and when I do return it, I might have to cut our conversation short. Your call means the world to me. Unfortunately, at that very moment, my baby has decided to create a mess that’s remarkable in its scope—imagine a scene that involves both ends. It’s as if the little one is aware that his new outfit hasn’t been documented yet on social media.
I’m also sorry if you see that I’ve read your message but haven’t replied. I promise I will respond. The delay is due to the fact that my phone is a magnet for both kids, who are intent on using it for their own entertainment, often leading to calls that I did not authorize.
To all my friends reading this, I truly appreciate your understanding. I am striving to be a good friend while simultaneously attempting to be the best mom I can be. We women are known for our multitasking abilities, but even the most skilled among us can occasionally feel overwhelmed.
Perhaps in a decade, we will finally carve out some time for a peaceful coffee date, where we can reminisce about our lives, our homes, and the treasures we’ve found along the way. Or, let’s be honest, it will probably devolve into a night filled with wine, talking about our mischievous children.
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In summary, while I sometimes struggle to balance the demands of motherhood with maintaining friendships, I appreciate your patience and understanding. I’m committed to being present and supportive, and I look forward to future conversations, even if they are interrupted by little ones.