Approximately ten months ago, I reignited my passion for writing—a pursuit I had set aside for over 15 years. It began unexpectedly, but I quickly realized how much I had craved this creative outlet. Writing became a cherished activity, providing me with a sense of ownership after dedicating 12 years to my family. I launched a blog and connected with other mothers, which was exhilarating. However, I also sought to contribute financially to my household. The idea of earning money doing something I love was incredibly appealing.
As I explored freelance writing opportunities, I encountered a significant obstacle: the dreaded resume. While I had once been a high school English teacher, that experience felt irrelevant after so long away from formal employment. Although I had amassed countless life experiences as a stay-at-home parent, these did not translate into conventional professional qualifications.
Why Does This Happen?
Why is this the case? Why does the decision to care for our families lack the recognition it deserves on a resume? We are undertaking an immensely important and challenging role. We dedicate ourselves to raising compassionate individuals, a task that many would argue is more demanding than any job. Yet, this dedication doesn’t fit neatly into the framework of traditional careers—there are no paychecks, health benefits, or accolades to showcase, and certainly no space for it on a resume.
Some may argue that I was aware of the sacrifices I was making when I chose to leave the workforce. I understood that stepping away would mean shelving some of my skills and passions. However, I have not been idle or disconnected from the world. I remain a creative, intelligent force ready to rejoin the workforce. The experiences I’ve gained as a stay-at-home parent would undoubtedly impress potential employers if given the chance to present them.
Skills Gained as a Stay-at-Home Parent
Am I familiar with the latest Excel or PowerPoint applications? Not quite. But I’ve mastered tracking my children via GPS, managing parental controls, and navigating technology in ways I never imagined. I’m confident I could quickly learn any necessary software.
Do I handle constructive criticism well? With a tween daughter and two assertive boys, not to mention a 15-year marriage, I can confidently answer yes.
Am I a diligent worker? After years of sleepless nights and the responsibility of nurturing three children (and two dogs), the answer is undoubtedly yes.
Do I possess strong communication skills? My interactions with a diverse range of individuals, including moms, teachers, doctors, and specialists, have honed my ability to communicate effectively.
Navigating the Job Market
So, how do we navigate re-entering the professional world after years spent at home? I refuse to settle for roles that do not resonate with me simply because my experiences don’t match traditional resume criteria. I plan to continue writing, pushing my way back into the workforce, and demanding recognition for my years of dedication, which should not be dismissed as merely a “break from work.” My journey has been anything but a vacation; I have been fully engaged in the realities of life from a different vantage point.
When we decide to re-enter the job market, we must embrace our worth. We should remember the extensive range of skills we have developed: problem-solving, resource management, emotional intelligence, and the ability to adapt. We are dependable, resilient, and deserving of opportunities. Our contributions may not fit neatly into measurable categories, but they are invaluable.
Perhaps there isn’t a dedicated spot for our roles on resumes because what we accomplished is not easily quantified. Yet, our experiences overflow with lessons learned and skills acquired. It’s time to embrace our journeys and keep striving for greater achievements.
Additional Resources
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Summary
Re-entering the workforce after being a stay-at-home parent presents unique challenges due to the undervaluing of domestic roles in professional settings. Many mothers possess a wealth of transferable skills that are often overlooked. Embracing our experiences and understanding our worth are crucial steps toward successfully navigating this transition.