March 23, 2023
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I have a strong aversion to physical contact. Just ask my partner, Alex.
At family events, I often avoid hugs and feel uneasy with kisses as greetings. It makes me feel uncomfortable. The idea of being touched by strangers—people who are neither my partner nor my children—feels bizarre to me. Even my family understands that there are times when I need personal space; sometimes my body simply requires a break from physical interaction.
Therefore, when I find myself at work and a male colleague, someone who is not my partner, decides to pat my back or drape an arm around my shoulders, I feel an overwhelming sense of distress.
Outwardly, I maintain my composure. I laugh at your less-than-funny jokes and brush off your feeble attempts at flirting. I pretend not to notice the suggestive undertones in your morning stories and do my utmost to resist the urge to confront you for your presumptuousness. It’s disheartening how some men assume that their touch is welcome when it absolutely is not.
Women like me often navigate these situations with caution. We have responsibilities and families to support; we lack the privilege of openly demanding that you respect our boundaries.
What you may not realize is how unsettling even the most innocent touch can feel when it comes from someone who hasn’t been granted permission.
I must also acknowledge my role in this dynamic; I have not always voiced my discomfort. Thus, let me make it clear: Please do not touch me. It’s a simple request that deserves respect.
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In summary, personal boundaries are essential, especially when it comes to physical touch. It is crucial for individuals to recognize and respect the comfort levels of others, particularly in professional settings.