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What Boys Should Understand About Becoming Men
by Alex Johnson
March 23, 2023
As a parent raising young boys, my role extends beyond just nurturing them; I am also guiding them on their journey to becoming men. They will assume various roles throughout their lives—partners, fathers, colleagues, and perhaps even leaders in their communities.
While countless articles offer heartfelt insights from mothers about how to raise boys into sensitive yet strong men, this post takes a different approach. Here, I present ten practical tips—more grounded than profound—that every boy should understand about manhood:
- A Fragrance, Not a Fog
When it comes to cologne and body spray, a light touch is essential. A pleasant scent is a boon, but overpowering others with a cloud of fragrance is not. Prioritize basic hygiene—soap, toothpaste, and deodorant—before adding cologne as a subtle enhancement. - Flowers Are Fine, But Think Deeper
Bringing flowers to a partner is nice, but they lack the personal touch. Instead, consider gifts that reflect her interests. A quirky zombie-themed item or a box of delectable cupcakes would leave a lasting impression. - Cultivate Culinary Skills
Relying solely on ramen and frozen pizza is acceptable in college, but as you transition into adulthood, expand your culinary repertoire. Mastering a few simple dishes, such as lasagna or cookies, can make a significant difference in your independence. - Address Issues Promptly
Whether it’s a clogged toilet or overflowing garbage, tackle problems head-on. Ignoring messes only contributes to larger issues down the line. - Treat Service Workers with Respect
Your attitude toward waitstaff and customer service representatives reveals much about your character. Be patient and understanding, recognizing that they are not the source of your frustrations. - Mood Swings Aren’t Always Hormonal
Sometimes, women may be irritable for reasons unrelated to hormones. In these moments, practice patience and allow them space—avoid making assumptions about their mood. - Understand the Struggles of Menstruation
Menstruation is an uncomfortable reality for many women. Show empathy and be supportive—buying tampons, pain relief, or even ice cream can go a long way in demonstrating care. - Sharing Is Caring, Even with the Remote
While it’s fine to enjoy your favorite shows, don’t clutch the remote like it’s a life raft. If you fall asleep, relinquish control of the TV to allow others to enjoy their viewing experience. - Retire Worn-Out Undergarments
If your underwear resembles Swiss cheese, it’s time for a replacement. New underwear is affordable, and there’s no reason to cling to what should be discarded. - Socks Are Not for Intimacy
It’s crucial to remove socks during intimate moments. The visual is less than appealing and can distract from the experience.
These insights may not be the most profound, but they are practical tips that can shape the young men in our lives. By steering them away from common pitfalls, such as wearing holey underwear or drowning in cologne, we contribute positively to their development.
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Summary:
Raising boys into men involves teaching them practical life skills and social etiquette. From basic hygiene and cooking to respectful treatment of others and understanding women’s experiences, these lessons contribute to their overall development.