I have a strong aversion to physical contact. Just ask my partner, Jake. At family events, I tend to shy away from hugs and find greetings that involve kissing quite uncomfortable. It feels odd to me when strangers touch me—people who aren’t my husband or my kids. Even they understand that there are moments when I need my personal space, when I simply require a break from physical demands.
So, when I’m at work and a male colleague, who isn’t Jake, casually pats my back, drapes his arm around me, or massages my shoulders, I feel an overwhelming sense of alarm.
You wouldn’t notice my distress right away. On the surface, I might appear composed, chuckling at your mediocre jokes and dismissing your clumsy attempts at flirtation. I do my best to ignore the inappropriate undertones in your morning stories while fighting the urge to slap your arrogant face for assuming I would welcome your touch.
This is how women like myself navigate daily interactions. We have families to support and cannot afford the luxury of telling you to keep your hands to yourself. You might not realize it, but your unsolicited touch affects us deeply, even if it seems harmless.
I must admit, I share some responsibility for not voicing my discomfort. Therefore, I ask kindly: please refrain from touching me. It’s a simple request that deserves respect.
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In summary, it’s essential to respect personal boundaries, particularly regarding physical touch. Many women feel uncomfortable when touched without consent, and it’s vital to address this issue openly.