Pregnancy
By Jessica Martin
March 24, 2023
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Nausea is Unavoidable.
From the moment you discover you’re pregnant, the world of food becomes a minefield. You could delve into specifics about certain items that make your stomach churn, but just thinking about them is enough to send you running to the bathroom. It’s akin to a relentless hangover—only you didn’t party last night; you were in bed by eight, sipping herbal tea and munching on crackers. It’s maddening. And let’s not even start on the partner you feel is responsible for this ordeal. -
You May Develop Resentment Toward Your Partner.
No matter how saintly your partner may seem, a wave of annoyance is bound to wash over you. It could be something as trivial as them strumming a guitar during your much-needed nap or insisting on a healthy dinner option when all you want is pizza. They may inadvertently become your arch-nemesis. You’ll wrestle with feelings of guilt for harboring these thoughts, especially since they’re also the one sharing in this journey. But during these trying weeks, you’ll probably wish for some solitude—away from them and everything else. -
The Financial Burden Becomes Clear.
Even if you come from wealth, you’ll quickly see your funds depleting. Want to take maternity leave? That could cost you upwards of $5,000. With a high deductible health plan, additional expenses will pile up rapidly. The list goes on—baby gear, nursery setup, childcare, and the future college fund. Suddenly, getting a puppy might seem like a more economical choice. -
Naps Will Dominate Your Schedule.
Bid farewell to your social life, gym sessions, and even basic self-care. Your new routine will revolve around napping. You might feel like a teenager who can’t get out of bed. After a day of work, you’ll find yourself preparing for a nap, waking only to consume a meal that will likely trigger nausea before retreating to sleep by nine. You’ll find yourself longing for the days when you could stay up and enjoy activities you once loved. Mommy blogs will constantly remind you to cherish your sleep—because once the baby arrives, it’s officially game over. -
Those Enormous Breasts Aren’t All They’re Cracked Up to Be.
The larger bosom you always dreamed of can turn out to be quite uncomfortable. You may find yourself tossing and turning during naps, only to awaken with soreness. The only relief comes from tightly fitting bras that keep everything in place. At times, your entire body may feel excessively swollen, leaving you to ponder what it’s like to be stranded on the shore, like a beached whale. -
Everyone Will Insist It’s Worth It.
You might feel guilty for voicing your grievances, especially since you’ll eventually gaze down at your beautiful child and recall the struggles of the first trimester with a sense of nostalgia. But in this moment, you’re certain of one thing: pregnancy is tough.
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Summary:
The first trimester of pregnancy is often marked by intense nausea, unexpected financial strains, and a significant shift in daily habits. Expect to feel a mix of emotions, including annoyance toward your partner and discomfort from physical changes. While many will assure you that these challenges are temporary and worth it, the initial experience can feel overwhelming.