It’s hard to believe that just four years ago, I was penning a piece as you embarked on your high school journey. I offered guidance on staying organized, getting involved in school activities, and reaching out for help when necessary.
I encouraged you to connect with your principal (which you did), to build friendships with those of strong character (check), and to make use of the school library (we won’t discuss that). I warned you that time would fly, and indeed it has.
If I could have paused time, I would have pressed that button long ago, wishing to keep you my little one forever. Now, as you stand on the brink of a significant milestone, it’s not just about growing up; it’s about stepping into adulthood. Graduation signals to the world, “I’m ready! Where to next? It’s time for transformation, and I’m eager to show what I can do. It’s time to spread my wings.”
As a parent, this moment fills me with both immense pride and bittersweet emotions. My mind is brimming with excitement and curiosity about your future, while my heart feels heavy knowing the significance of this transition.
Reflecting on your childhood, I realize I may have bombarded you with questions. Please forgive me; my intention was to stay connected. Your life has been my focus, and I’ve learned that sometimes you just needed me to listen rather than offer solutions. And listen I did—what I discovered amazed me.
You’ve developed an admirable moral compass. You treat everyone with kindness, understand the importance of a firm handshake, and remember people’s names. You balance having boundaries while enjoying time with friends, stay grounded, and exhibit humility. You’ve learned to stretch a ten-dollar bill to last the week and understand that time spent with grandparents is invaluable. You’ve let go of grudges, knowing that holding onto anger doesn’t help. You’ve shown me that you are wise beyond your years.
High school wasn’t always a walk in the park; let’s be real—it was sometimes a struggle. You entered as one person and are leaving as someone transformed, with scars that tell the story of your journey. These scars are like beautiful badges of honor, reminding you of your strength and resilience. Keep in mind, everyone leaves high school with some scars; it’s a part of being human. The challenges you faced have prepared you for the future, teaching you about your own strength and grit.
Thank you for allowing me to accompany you on this journey and for your understanding as I navigated my own mistakes along the way. I often wanted to swoop in and save you from struggle, but I learned the value of stepping back and simply being present. In hindsight, it’s those tough times that spurred your growth the most.
You’ve discovered what true friendship means and carved your own path, even when it meant missing out on some social events. You prioritized character over reputation, choosing to stay home with us when you didn’t want to engage in certain activities. And let me tell you, those moments spent together were cherished. You had the courage to remain true to yourself, resisting the pull of the crowd. You learned to laugh at yourself and share joy with others. You worked hard, and your efforts have paid off.
Before you embark on this new adventure (sniff!), here are a few final pieces of advice:
- In challenging times, remember that your voice has power; you can create change. Now that you’re of voting age, make your choices wisely.
- The shortest path is often the longest. Instant gratification may come with long-term consequences. Be prepared to work hard and embrace the discomfort that comes with it.
- Always remember that you have choices, regardless of the circumstances.
- Have the courage to say “I’m sorry,” “I love you,” and “I forgive you.”
- Spend within your means. Being broke in college is a rite of passage; enjoy the simplicity of ramen noodles and dorm food. One day, you’ll look back and smile at these times.
- Success isn’t defined by your job title, income, or possessions. True success comes from who you are and how you treat others.
- Express gratitude to those who have supported you along the way. Never look down on anyone unless you’re helping them up.
- Confidence combined with a desire to make a positive impact can be a force for good.
- Surround yourself with people who uplift you and distance yourself from those who don’t.
- Life may not always go as planned. Prepare for the ups and downs, celebrating the highs and seeking support during the lows.
- Always remember that home is a safe haven for you, no matter how chaotic life gets.
- And above all, be kind. Be kind. Be kind.
As you prepare to take this next step, I’m ready to step back and watch your life unfold. This will undoubtedly be one of my greatest challenges, but I have faith in your ability to embrace whatever comes your way.
And yes, I trust you’ll know to call your grandmother if your bank account runs low!
The future may be uncertain, but I’m confident in a few things: you will continue to grow and thrive, you’ll apply the lessons of your upbringing, you’ll give back to your community, and you’ll honor your true self while treating others with kindness. This will lead you to your own version of success.
Good kids still exist, and I thank you for being one of them. Thank you for staying true to yourself. Enjoy your graduation, and do let me take as many pictures as I want—it’s my right as your parent, after all!
Love you to the moon and back,
Mom
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Summary:
This heartfelt letter to a graduating high school student reflects on the journey of growth and the transition to adulthood. It emphasizes the importance of character, resilience, and kindness, providing valuable life lessons as the graduate prepares for the next chapter. The parent expresses pride, love, and trust in their child while reminding them to cherish relationships and stay true to themselves.