Updated: August 5, 2018
Originally Published: August 3, 2018
In the realm of parenting strategies, the concept of utilizing a child harness has often been met with skepticism. I, too, was once critical of such practices until my second child, Leo, exhibited an extraordinary talent for eluding parental supervision.
To provide context, Leo has managed to navigate through locked gates, vanish into sprawling fields, and inadvertently tumble down flights of stairs. Though I was present during each escapade, his quickness and cunning often left me overwhelmed, especially while managing his older sibling, who was more focused on mischief than evasion.
Prior to Leo, I shared the sentiments of many, including Marissa Kinsey, a parenting columnist who remarked, “Parents using leashes seem lazy.” However, after experiencing the challenges of parenting a spirited child, I found it difficult to uphold this perspective. Our primary responsibility as caregivers is to safeguard our children, even if that means employing unconventional methods. The judgments from onlookers—whether rolling eyes or whispered criticisms—pale in comparison to the importance of ensuring our children’s safety.
Critics of child leashing argue that such practices inhibit a child’s understanding of boundaries and consequences. Dr. Rachel Simmons, a developmental psychologist, emphasizes the necessity of instilling discipline through verbal guidance and redirection. Yet, I question the efficacy of mere words when faced with a child who is determined to explore the world, particularly in environments filled with potential hazards, such as amusement parks or busy streets.
The analogy often made is that using a leash equates to treating a child like a pet. However, I would argue that both my son and my dog exhibited similar tendencies to chase after distractions without regard for safety. Thus, to mitigate risks, both warranted the use of a leash.
Now, as Leo approaches his teenage years at age 12, he demonstrates an understanding of safety protocols—looking both ways before crossing streets and yielding to traffic on his bike. He no longer attempts to squeeze into precarious spaces. However, should he revert to his impulsive and reckless behavior, I would not hesitate to employ that leash again, as it embodies proactive and engaged parenting.
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In summary, the use of leashes for children can be a practical safety measure that allows parents to navigate the unpredictable nature of childhood. It is essential to prioritize safety over societal judgment. Engaged parenting often requires a willingness to adopt unconventional methods for the well-being of our children.