Dear Gentlemen,
Across our nation, the rights of women regarding their reproductive health are facing severe challenges. If you’ve wished someone a Happy Mother’s Day but haven’t taken steps to support a woman’s autonomy over her body, it’s time to reassess. Celebrating motherhood while undermining women’s rights is contradictory.
To truly honor mothers—past, present, and future—we must respect their autonomy and agency. If you identify as male and want to do more than just pay lip service in support of women, consider these recommendations:
Educate Yourself
It’s shocking how little many men understand about the female reproductive system. Take the time to learn the facts and educate others around you.
Support Science
Women’s experiences and established medical data should not require validation from men. Focus on evidence and make informed decisions that respect women’s lives.
Speak Up
The silence of well-meaning men can harm women. When women aren’t present, advocate for them; talk to other men and boys, and engage with your legislators. When women are around, listen actively.
Tackle Racism
Recognize that marginalized women often face the most significant challenges. Addressing racism is essential in supporting all women.
Contribute Financially
Consider donating part of that extra income you earn to organizations that provide reproductive health services. Groups like Planned Parenthood and local grassroots movements are vital resources for women seeking care.
Elect Women
Research candidates’ voting records on reproductive rights. Support and vote for women running for office; empowering women means stepping back and allowing them to lead.
Decenter Male Pleasure
Ideas proposing that women should go on a “sex strike” reduce women to mere instruments for male pleasure. Women should not have to manipulate their sexuality to assert their rights. Pleasure should not be contingent upon male satisfaction; there are many ways for men to support women’s enjoyment without any focus on reproduction.
Make Space for Women
Don’t just invite women to participate in discussions; actively make room for their voices. Step aside at the tables of power and let women take the lead.
Consider the Bigger Picture
The wave of restrictive local abortion laws seeks to undermine women’s constitutional rights. Avoid reactive stances; become informed about candidates’ positions and make your voice heard in every election.
Gentlemen, there’s no neutral ground on this issue. You’re either actively opposing oppression or inadvertently supporting it. A woman’s right to choose is fundamentally hers, always has been, and always will be.
For more insights on reproductive topics, check out this post on home insemination. If you’re looking to enhance fertility, Make a Mom offers invaluable resources. Additionally, for those navigating the complexities of insurance related to pregnancy, UCSF provides excellent information.
In summary, it is crucial for men to step up and support women’s rights actively. Through education, advocacy, and financial support, men can play a vital role in ensuring that women have the agency they deserve.