When it comes to intimacy, I have to be honest: oral sex is my absolute favorite. However, it seems that people with vaginas have mixed feelings about cunnilingus. I often hear comments like, “It just isn’t for me,” or “I can’t reach climax that way.” This leads me to wonder if they’ve ever tried the Kivin technique, a method that might just change everything.
Let’s face it, the primary aim of oral sex is to achieve orgasm. If you’re lying there and not feeling anything special while someone is between your thighs, what’s the point? But imagine knowing you could reach that blissful O-town in under ten minutes—wouldn’t you be more open to exploring oral pleasure? I think the answer is yes!
Your partner likely wants to make you feel good and is eager to see their efforts rewarded. If you haven’t heard of the Kivin technique—claiming “orgasm in three minutes” and boasting that 60% of women and individuals with vaginas experience quicker and more intense orgasms, according to a report by Cosmo—then stick around. You’ll want to learn about this!
How Does It Work?
First things first: positioning is crucial. Lie on your back and get cozy; perhaps grab your favorite pillow to enhance the experience. Your partner should approach you from the side. While many prefer the classic position with the head between your thighs or the 69 position, trust me—the side approach is a game-changer.
Once in position, it’s essential to expose your clitoris. This means spreading your legs and labia, allowing your partner to access the sweet spot. You can assist by using your fingers to open up your labia, giving them a clear view of the area we want to stimulate.
Now, your partner can begin by licking the clitoris from the side. According to Dr. Emily Carter, an expert in pelvic health, they should aim for a 90-degree angle to your belly button while licking. This technique is particularly effective because it targets the nerve endings that provide pleasure. Encourage your partner to start slow and communicate when they find your sweet spot.
It’s worth noting that the clitoris resembles a wishbone, with parts hidden behind the labia minora. As your partner becomes aware of the swelling around the vaginal canal, they should increase their speed in that area. Your feedback is crucial here; letting them know when you’re close can enhance the experience.
To intensify the sensation, have your partner apply gentle pressure between your vagina and anus. They will feel your muscles contracting as you approach orgasm, which can heighten the excitement for both of you. This method is so effective because it stimulates you faster than other techniques, making it worth a try.
If you’re feeling shy about suggesting this to your partner, consider sharing this article or leaving it somewhere they’ll find it. Trust me, you won’t regret it.
In Summary:
- Lie on your back and open your labia.
- Have your partner stimulate your clitoris from their side.
- As they notice swelling, they’ll be in the right place. Increased speed will amplify pleasure.
- Light pressure on the anus or perineum will enhance your orgasm.
Have fun exploring!
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