Welcome to our advice column, where our team of “experts” tackles your questions about life, family, and everything that can be a bit perplexing. This week, we delve into the dilemma of too many toys and presents from extended family, leaving you, as the gift-giver, a little stumped.
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My partner and I have three little ones, all under the age of 10. Our relatives are relentless in their gift-giving, showering our kids with an overwhelming number of toys and presents—many of which we didn’t request. This leaves us scratching our heads about what to give them. There have even been times when our children have pointed out that “Santa” has given them things that their Aunt Lisa or Grandpa Joe had already bought. How can we kindly ask our families to ease up on the gifting without coming across as ungrateful? Is this truly a problem? HELP.
While it may seem trivial, this is definitely a real issue. If your family reaches out for gift ideas, be open and establish some clear boundaries. You might say, “Just one small gift per child, please! When there are too many presents, it complicates our Christmas morning experience.”
Have you set up savings accounts for your kids? If so, suggest that family members contribute to those accounts instead of buying physical gifts. While it may not generate as much excitement in the moment, that money can be used for meaningful future expenses—like new tech for school, clothing, or even college.
Another idea is to request heartfelt gifts, such as handwritten letters from grandparents or loved ones. Kids may not appreciate them now, but they’ll treasure those memories later. Homemade gifts are also a great alternative, as well as gift cards for experiences, like zoo memberships or museum visits, which can create lasting memories.
Feeling overwhelmed by generosity is completely valid. As parents, we want to be the ones to provide those special moments for our kids, and it’s understandable that relatives share in that joy. However, it’s important that they respect your wishes as the parents. Approach the conversation with gratitude and honesty, and feel no guilt about expressing your needs.
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In summary, managing the influx of gifts from relatives can be tricky. By setting clear boundaries and suggesting more meaningful alternatives, you can navigate this situation while maintaining positive family relationships.