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When my twins entered the world three months early, I grappled with overwhelming feelings of guilt and inadequacy as a mother. Their stay in the NICU was marked by frequent medical challenges, leaving me unable to bond with them in the usual ways—there were times I couldn’t even hold them. Despite losing many of my parenting roles to healthcare professionals, I found solace in reading to my babies. I would read to them before their surgeries and every night before reluctantly heading home. I even read to my firstborn son, Noah, as he succumbed to complications from necrotizing enterocolitis (NEC).
Research confirms what we often feel intuitively: reading provides vital neuroprotective benefits for infants. When families read to their babies, they support their long-term cognitive, language, and emotional development. This activity fosters physical closeness and comfort between parents and their little ones—an essential aspect for families in the NICU. Engaging in reading also empowers NICU parents, encouraging them to become active participants in their baby’s care.
Books are beneficial not only for infants but also for their parents. Reading can restore a sense of normalcy during tumultuous times, allowing families to create cherished memories together. This is particularly impactful when the stories resonate with their current experiences or hold nostalgic value for parents, possibly reminding them of beloved tales from their own childhoods.
After Noah passed away from NEC, I sought meaningful ways to keep his memory alive. I remembered how much comfort reading brought my twins during their NICU stay. Motivated by this, my family initiated a book donation program at our NICU, providing thousands of books so that each family could receive a new story to cherish every week of their baby’s hospitalization.
Leading NICUs prioritize access to breast pumps and human milk for preemies; they should similarly ensure that families have access to storybooks. Reading together is a powerful and cost-effective way to promote neuroprotective care, enhance bonding, and support the wellbeing of NICU families who face overwhelming challenges. Storybooks should be recognized as a crucial resource in the NICU, offering immediate benefits for both infants and parents while also nurturing a lifelong habit of reading together.
Having a baby in the NICU can be a transformative experience, and books can play a vital role in helping families navigate the associated trauma. Reading with my twins helped us cope with difficult diagnoses and the daily anxieties of NICU life. During our final moments with Noah, we made handprints in his favorite books. Today, we share those same stories with Noah’s siblings, who delight in seeing their hands next to their brother’s handprints.
Recommended Titles for NICU Book Programs
- Wherever You Are My Love Will Find You by Mia Johnson
- You Are My I Love You by Sarah K. Weiss
- The Little Engine That Could by Timmy Brown
- Goodnight Moon by Laura Greene
- All the World by Jenna Smith
- On the Night You Were Born by Emma L. Carter
- The I Love You Book by Sam Johnson
- You Are My Sunshine, illustrated by Lisa Ray
- The Crown On Your Head by Sarah White
- Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, illustrated by Anna Brown
To initiate a book program, NICUs can collaborate with their hospital’s child life services, partner with family advisory councils, or even reach out to local bookstores. Supporters in the community are often eager to donate new books, ensuring that NICU families can find comfort through reading.
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Summary
Providing books to babies in NICUs not only enriches their developmental journey but also fosters crucial bonding moments between parents and infants. By implementing a book donation initiative, NICUs can support families in coping with the challenges of hospitalization, offering both immediate comfort and the potential to cultivate a lifelong love for reading.
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