8 Regrettable Splurges: Lessons Learned

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I tend to be frugal, so when I decide to indulge in something extravagant, I expect it to be a memorable experience. Unfortunately, that’s not always the case. Here are eight splurges I now regret, along with the valuable lessons I’ve learned from each:

1. My 40th Birthday Dinner
   Approximate Cost: $800 (originally $1,400)
   My most significant splurge was a dinner at a Michelin three-star restaurant in New York City for my 40th birthday. While many celebrate milestone birthdays with extravagant vacations, I thought a lavish meal would be equally memorable. Sadly, it turned out to be one of the most disappointing dining experiences of my life. The food didn’t live up to its price tag, and I learned that spending a fortune doesn’t guarantee enjoyment. Now, I opt for more reasonably priced restaurants, which often surprise me in a positive way.
2. Designer Stilettos
   Approximate Cost: Over $300
   Years ago, I splurged on high-fashion stilettos that I wore only once. The pain I endured that night was not worth it. I still wear heels but have since learned to spend less for the sake of my feet. It seems every woman has experienced the regret of purchasing painful footwear—it’s as if we are drawn to them like moths to a flame.
3. Elegant Pen and Pencil Set
   Approximate Cost: $215
   In a misguided attempt to embrace adulthood, I purchased a set of high-end writing instruments. Within a week, the pen vanished, and I realized I dislike writing with a pencil. Now, I’ve come to understand that adulthood is more about the bigger picture, and I happily collect hotel pens instead.
4. Hot Stone Massage
   Approximate Cost: $155
   While I enjoy spa treatments, my experience with a hot stone massage was underwhelming. The stones lost their heat almost instantly, leaving me feeling foolish. A simple tip: ask your masseuse to run their hands under hot water before beginning the massage for a better experience.
5. Gel Mani-Pedis
   Approximate Cost: $65 plus tip
   Gel manicures and pedicures are significantly more expensive than traditional ones and often overrated. I once had a gel pedicure, only for a large section of polish to lift off within a week. I’ve learned that sometimes, spending less leads to better results.
6. Expensive Bottles of Wine
   Approximate Cost: $50 and up
   While I would gladly accept a $100 or $200 bottle of wine as a gift, I’ve found that purchasing one for my own enjoyment is rarely worth it. I prefer bottles costing around $30, as nobody I know can distinguish between a high-end wine and an affordable option. I don’t want my evening spoiled by wondering if a bottle is really worth the extra expense.
7. Unused Wedding Dresses
   Approximate Cost: $1,600
   When discussing my splurges, my partner immediately mentioned my wedding dresses. After multiple relationships, I ended up with three gowns prior to marrying my now-husband. While I love the dress I ultimately chose, I still hear family jokes about my excessive purchases.
8. My Condo
   Approximate Cost: $149,999
   Purchasing a condo as a single woman in 2007 was an impulsive move. I didn’t fully grasp how a six-figure mortgage would affect my finances and bought the property as a way to escape a breakup. Shortly after, I relocated for work, renting it out to questionable tenants. This experience taught me valuable lessons about financial responsibility and resilience.

These splurges may be regrettable, but they have provided me with invaluable life lessons. They serve as reminders to carefully consider future expenditures.

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Summary:

In this article, I share eight significant splurges that I regret, including a costly birthday dinner, expensive shoes, and my condo purchase. Each experience taught me essential lessons about financial prudence and personal expectations. Ultimately, these splurges serve as reminders of the importance of mindful spending.