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Hey there, fellow parents of young and grown kids! Can I share a little insight with you? Thanks for letting me open up.
As a mom of three in their 20s, I know firsthand that while it might seem appealing to be free from the daily grind of parenting, this stage of life can be incredibly challenging. You might think, “What a relief to be done,” and I might agree with a nod. But let me tell you, this phase of parenting is tough. Like, really tough. Think drowning in responsibilities tough.
It’s essential to discuss the realities of parenting adult children. I want to shed light on the difficulties that come with this experience, especially for those of you still navigating the early years of child-rearing. I certainly missed the memo about the challenges that accompany an empty nest.
This transition from raising little ones to guiding adults can be filled with difficulties. Here’s why:
- You have to witness your children stumble and make mistakes.
- It’s painful to see them struggle and learn hard lessons when you know they could have chosen differently.
- You may find yourself blindsided when they bring up past parenting missteps as justification for their own choices.
- Your faith can be tested as you learn to let go, offer encouragement, and resist the urge to intervene — all while feeling a fierce love that wants to protect them from harm.
The process of letting go can be exhausting for both you and your child. They want to embrace independence, while you worry about whether you’ve equipped them for success. As a mom who has made my share of mistakes, I know these messy moments can weigh heavily on us. It’s easy to fall into the trap of feeling responsible for every misstep they take, questioning all the choices you made along the way.
But remember: Don’t let the nagging doubts that you weren’t enough or didn’t do things right take hold of your heart. What truly matters is the love and effort you’ve poured into your children. We are all beautifully imperfect beings.
As our kids strive for independence, we must trust that we’ve given them the tools they need. We can continue to love and pray for their strength while also seeking balance for ourselves. Let’s embrace the grace we need and extend that same grace to our children.
If you’re interested in more insights about parenting and related topics, check out this blog post or explore resources on fertility and home insemination at Make A Mom and UCSF.
Summary
Parenting adult children presents unique challenges, filled with moments of doubt, worry, and the struggle of letting go. While it can be tough to watch them make mistakes, it’s crucial to remember that love and effort define our roles as parents. Embracing grace is essential for both us and our kids as they venture into independence.