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By: Emily Johnson
When I was in college, my friend Lisa needed a new mattress. She asked me to tag along for some company, and I jokingly said, “Friends don’t let friends buy mattresses alone.” We stopped for drinks, chatted on the way, debated mattress options, and returned home feeling accomplished. I always thought this was just a normal activity among friends. If there’s a dull task to tackle, you call a friend. This concept is referred to as an “errand hang” in some places.
Apparently, I might be a bit unconventional, or maybe it’s just me and the other moms I know. Prior to COVID, I was all about errand hanging, and even after my closest mom friends moved away, I still find ways to make it happen. The errand hang is thriving, folks! How else do we manage to spend time together? Life is hectic; special outings with wine and fancy dinners just aren’t feasible. My free time is often consumed with necessary tasks, and I’d rather not tackle them alone.
So, I reach out to friends. Need to pick up some decorative items or groceries? I have a friend for that. They probably need similar things, and if not, they appreciate the company. We’ll chat, catch up on life, and maybe even stop at a thrift store along the way. That’s the beauty of an errand hang.
Moms Errand Hang All The Time
I genuinely miss hanging out with my mom friends, especially our errand adventures. With kids to manage and errands to run, it was easy to coordinate. “Hey, do you need something from Target? Because I do!” We would meet up, armed with our lists and little ones in tow.
“Okay, you need some groceries, and I need to grab a few toiletries. Let’s tackle this together!” We would navigate the aisles, supporting each other and laughing. It was teamwork at its finest, and we usually left with just what we needed, thanks to our combined focus. We shared little glimpses into each other’s lives—moments that seemed small but added up to a larger friendship.
Post-COVID, my buddy Alex and I still errand hang regularly. He’s a busy lawyer, and I’m a writer with a packed schedule. One Sunday, Alex picked me up, and we spent the day running political errands. What would have felt monotonous alone became enjoyable with music and conversation.
We also recently went shopping for a new washing machine. He didn’t need my help; he knew exactly what he wanted. But he appreciated my company while he navigated the process. We leaned against appliances and reminisced about college memories while waiting for service.
That’s what an errand hang is all about—taking mundane tasks and transforming them into quality time with friends. We need more of this! If asking a friend to join you for errands seems odd, they might just be the strange ones. Who wouldn’t want to spend time together while discussing the best options for household items?
Cindy Wang Brandt mentions that in Mandarin, the term for this is “陪, ‘pei,’ which means to accompany someone for frivolous reasons.” I love that! Sometimes, we just accompany friends because it’s convenient. I’ve had friends join me for everything from shopping for clothes to selecting paint colors or buying gifts for people they’ve never met. It’s a chance to connect and share without the pressure of a formal outing.
Summary
Errand hanging is a delightful way to spend time with friends while tackling necessary tasks. It allows for connection and conversation in a busy world. Whether you’re picking up groceries or shopping for home essentials, doing it with a friend turns mundane errands into enjoyable experiences. So, next time you have a task, consider reaching out to a friend to join you—it’s more fun together!
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