Stop Dismissing Everyone’s Preferences — Seriously, Just Let People Enjoy What They Like

Hey there, to all the self-satisfied critics out there ready to ridicule those who love autumn. Cut it out. I mean it. Before you launch into your snarky commentary about what other people find joy in during the fall season, take a step back and just don’t. Allow people to enjoy their interests.

Why is this relevant now?

Well, autumn is upon us, and with it comes the season of pumpkin spice, cozy blankets, Ugg boots, hay bales, and those charming signs that proclaim, “It’s Fall, Y’all!” There’s a certain type of person who can’t resist being sarcastic about those who embrace the stereotypical joys of the season, living their best lives at pumpkin patches, hayrides, and all the plaid.

It seems almost socially acceptable to be cynical and dismissive when people express their fondness for these autumnal clichés that have become part of the seasonal landscape in recent years. But why the negativity? Why does it bother you if a group of friends gathers to watch “Hocus Pocus” outdoors on a cozy night, surrounded by straw bales, all while donning jeans and oversized sweaters? How does that affect you? If it brings them happiness, why not just let them enjoy it? No one has named you the ruler of what’s acceptable, and your bitterness is showing.

Let People Enjoy Their Preferences

You really should learn to let people have their likes and dislikes throughout the year, not just in fall. Criticizing someone for their happiness is a lousy move, always, no matter the season. Unless someone’s actions are genuinely harmful to themselves or others, why can’t you simply let people enjoy their preferences?

Sure, it’s important to speak out against harmful behaviors like racism, sexism, or any other form of discrimination. We can’t just stand by while injustice occurs. However, what’s with the obsession over disliking harmless things that bring joy?

For instance, my partner, Jake, has faced ridicule for enjoying Taylor Swift’s music. It’s baffling how some people react negatively to a grown man liking her tunes, despite her selling millions of records for a reason. Her songs are catchy and well-crafted. While I might not always choose her music, if Jake wants to sing along to “Shake It Off” or “You Need to Calm Down” while we cook breakfast, I’m completely on board because I understand the importance of allowing others to enjoy their preferences.

Every time something becomes popular, there are always those who will dismiss it. That’s their right, but it doesn’t mean they should belittle those who find happiness in it.

Embrace Your Tastes

There was a time when I would downplay my movie preferences, fearing judgment. A pretentious acquaintance once laughed at my fondness for “Father of the Bride,” as if it had no merit. That moment made me hesitant to share my tastes. It took me time to realize that it’s perfectly fine to enjoy films as an escape from reality. If I want to watch a heartwarming romantic comedy, that doesn’t equate to having bad taste.

So, let people enjoy what they love. I’ll say it again: LET PEOPLE LIKE THINGS. How miserable must you be if you can’t find joy in others enjoying their passions? If your neighbor has a high-end bike and indulges in spa treatments while you prefer your treadmill and see no value in those luxuries, just let them be. You can appreciate your choices while respecting theirs.

Being a killjoy isn’t cool or edgy. People face enough challenges in life without you adding to their burdens. Mind your own business and let those around you enjoy their interests.

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In summary, it’s essential to respect the preferences of others, whether it’s seasonal joys or personal interests. Everyone deserves to enjoy what makes them happy without facing judgment.