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When I won a car from Wayne Carter on a game show in 2011, I never imagined that the vehicle would not be the most significant takeaway from the talented television and Broadway star. After following his ex-wife, Lisa Bennett, on social media for years, it has become evident that the most valuable gift Wayne has offered me (and the world) is his co-parenting insight. For anyone who has navigated the complexities of divorce and co-parenting, any advice that aids in managing those challenges is priceless.
Wayne and Lisa separated in 2006, officially divorcing by 2008. Despite their split, they have maintained a positive relationship to co-parent their daughter, Ella. In an early 2021 interview with Entertainment Tonight, Wayne revealed that the key to what many consider an “inspiring” divorce is simply “work.” He noted that having residual affection for an ex can help, but ultimately, it requires a mutual dedication to face challenges together.
As 2021 unfolded, Wayne and Lisa shared more of their unique journey, showcasing a new definition of “work.” Their TikToks and Instagram reels are nothing short of captivating. During the isolation of COVID, I found solace in the family videos featuring Wayne, Lisa, Ella, and Lisa’s partner, Jason Mitchell, dancing together. Their undeniable talent aside, the harmony they display as a family is truly inspiring. It’s evident that, no matter the effort involved in perfecting their routines, they were committed to collaborating and making it enjoyable.
But their connection goes beyond just cute dance videos. Wayne revealed that they were living together during the pandemic, providing support for one another as Ella transitioned to high school and then to college—experiences that coincided with the challenges of the last two years. Wayne emphasized in several interviews that their collective struggles and shared moments have forged them into a family. Their structure may be unconventional, but they are undeniably united.
Then Lisa and Jason began to share their journey of adoption, and I couldn’t help but feel emotional about their co-parenting dynamic. They posted a heartfelt video thanking Sunny’s birth mother, radiating joy and gratitude that was palpable. And the photos of their new addition? Absolutely adorable! He’s genuinely one of the cutest babies around (and I have two of my own).
Wayne even joined in on the celebration, proudly announcing his new title of ‘Duncle,’ a blend of dad and uncle, indicating his intention to help raise Lisa and Jason’s son. How sweet is that? Talk about co-parenting goals!
We all recognize that it truly takes a village to raise children. From the moment we hold our little ones, questions and worries arise, no matter how many children we have. The right support can guide us through nearly any obstacle from that very first day. It’s remarkable when parents realize they can’t sustain a romantic relationship yet still collaborate effectively for their children’s well-being.
It becomes even more extraordinary when exes support each other through life’s ups and downs. The end of a marriage doesn’t have to signify the end of wishing each other well. Parenting is not just an 18-year commitment; it’s a lifelong pledge. A marriage might end, but the promise to prioritize your co-parent’s well-being can endure, ensuring that your children have the healthiest, happiest parents possible. And ultimately, that usually leads to a more peaceful home. So, if Wayne and Lisa can do it, maybe my ex and I can find our way, too.