Having Children Deepened Mia Thompson’s Resentment Towards Her Absent Mother

Mia Thompson reflects on how her own mother’s absence has shaped her approach to parenting. Navigating motherhood can be particularly challenging for those who have strained or non-existent relationships with their parents. Without a solid example of what it means to be a nurturing figure, complicated emotions can arise. In a recent conversation, Mia shared her thoughts on this topic.

Mia, who is married to singer Alex Thompson, is now a mother of three: Ella, 8, Noah, 5, and Liam, 3. She has also recently debuted as an author with her book, “Creating Family Traditions: A Journey That Starts With You.” The concept for her book was influenced by her own experiences growing up without a strong maternal figure.

Creating Family Traditions

In her book, Mia recounts a moment when she prepared a meal reminiscent of her few cherished memories with her mother. When a friend inquired if the recipe was a family heirloom from Mia’s roots in Manila, she had to respond, “That’s a hard no.” She recalls, “I explained that it was a dish I had been researching and modifying over the years, turning it into my own creation.” This conversation sparked the idea for the book’s title. “My friend said, ‘So this tradition starts with you,’ and I thought, ‘Wait, that’s perfect!’ I noted it down, and it became a key part of my book ten years later.”

A Difficult Childhood

Mia shared that her mother left her and her brother when she was just nine years old. They relocated from Turkey to South Carolina to live with their father and stepmother. Initially, their mother made brief visits before completely disappearing, only to return later to ask for money she had won from a beauty pageant. “I spent my childhood wondering, ‘Will she return?’ but she never did,” Mia explained. “That was a devastating feeling for a little girl, especially one who longed for her mother’s presence.”

Navigating Motherhood

When Mia became a mother herself, she experienced a wave of uncertainty. “Without a maternal figure to guide me, I felt lost,” she admitted. “Questions like, ‘What do you do for your child’s first birthday? Is there something I should be saving?’ plagued me.” Over time, though, Mia came to realize that motherhood is ultimately about love. “As long as my kids feel cherished and know they are loved, everything else will sort itself out,” she stated.

Forgiveness and Anger

Regarding her feelings about her own mother’s abandonment, Mia shared, “I’ve reached a point of forgiveness because I chose to, but I can’t deny that having my children made me angrier at her for leaving. I can’t fathom just walking out on my kids.”

The complexities of childhood often become clearer when we step into the role of a parent. For some, this clarity can be uplifting, while for others, it can bring heartache. Mia is striving to navigate motherhood and create her own family traditions, a journey that many mothers with difficult pasts can relate to.

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In summary, Mia Thompson’s experiences with her absent mother have profoundly influenced her parenting style. Despite her painful past, she is determined to forge her own path and create loving traditions for her children.