My Teen’s Social Media Agreement

Introduction to Online Safety

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Navigating the online world can be akin to exploring the Wild West—vast, unpredictable, and filled with both excitement and risks. Simply wishing our teens well and offering vague advice (like “Be smart!” or “Stay safe!”) is insufficient. They require a well-defined framework based on the values and principles instilled within the family.

In light of this, I devised a social media agreement for my 13-year-old son, Alex, after he expressed a desire to join Instagram. On his birthday, he posted a photo that raised concerns for both me and his older siblings. It became clear that a formal contract would clarify our expectations and minimize potential disputes regarding social media use.

The Social Media Agreement

1. Privacy Settings: I agree to always maintain my account privacy settings to “private.”
2. Appropriate Content: I will refrain from posting images that focus on body parts. I will share photos that include my face or those of friends, understanding that this is not about body shame but rather protecting my image from potential exploitation.
3. Avoiding Sexualized Content: I agree not to share any sexualized images, which includes any type of kissing, inappropriate gestures, or suggestive poses. While being playful is acceptable, the Internet is not a safe environment for such behavior.
4. Respectful Communication: I commit to treating myself and others with respect in my posts and messages. This means no mocking, teasing, or sharing secrets on social media.
5. Location Privacy: For safety reasons, I will not disclose my exact location in posts. For instance, I will avoid saying, “I’m at the park with friends.”
6. Reporting Concerns: I will promptly inform a trusted adult if I receive any threatening or inappropriate messages or content on any platform.
7. Viewing Restrictions: I agree to avoid pornography. While I understand that sexual experiences are a natural part of adulthood, pornography can be harmful and presents a distorted view of relationships. If I unintentionally encounter explicit content, I will stop immediately.
8. Digital Footprint Awareness: I understand that anything I post online is permanent, even if deleted. People with technological knowledge can retrieve deleted content. This includes messages, which may be shared elsewhere. In the future, potential employers or relationships may review my online history.
9. Family Time: During family activities, I will put away all devices, including my phone, to engage meaningfully with my family.
10. Technology Breaks: I acknowledge that I may occasionally need to disconnect from technology. If I show signs of tech dependency, my parents may impose a short break from the Internet.
11. Nightly Device Curfew: I will cease all technology use, including my phone, by 8:00 PM unless granted a special exception.
12. Consequences of Non-Compliance: I understand that failing to follow these guidelines may result in the temporary loss of my social media privileges. My family enforces these rules out of love and care for my well-being.

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Summary

Creating a social media agreement is an essential step toward ensuring that teens navigate the online world safely and responsibly. By clearly outlining expectations and consequences, families can foster a supportive environment that encourages healthy digital habits.