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Why I Choose to Vote
In my earlier years, I often avoided discussions about politics. This hesitation stemmed from a lack of understanding regarding the political process and a feeling of inadequacy when faced with discussions on pressing issues. I was familiar with the key figures in my political party, but I hadn’t fully explored my views or felt confident enough to defend them. As a result, I would let election seasons pass by with minimal engagement. While I participated in national elections every four years, I struggled to articulate the roles of Congress or express support for the leaders in power.
Everything changed for me after the tragic events at Virginia Tech. In April 2007, 32 college students lost their lives at the hands of a troubled peer. I, along with the rest of the nation, watched in horror as discussions about gun control, campus safety, and mental health services unfolded. The images of the young victims moved me to tears, and I found myself questioning the state of our society.
As a mother with a son on the brink of starting kindergarten, I worried about his safety. What measures were in place to protect him from potential threats? What mental health resources existed in my community? I realized I lacked essential knowledge about these issues but was determined to seek answers.
Soon after, a local politician organized a pancake breakfast meet-and-greet. Despite my nerves, I knew I needed to attend. I arranged for a babysitter and walked into the fire hall, feeling a mix of excitement and apprehension. Who was I to question a government representative? But I reminded myself that as a concerned parent, I had every right to voice my concerns.
As I sat at a table surrounded by fellow community members, I built up the courage to ask my question. When my turn arrived, I stood up, fidgeting with my wedding rings, and asked the representative what steps he would take to ensure the safety of our children in light of the Virginia Tech tragedy. Surprisingly, he responded candidly, discussing the challenges of funding, bureaucracy, and differing political perspectives. While he didn’t provide all the answers, I felt heard, and that sense of validation was empowering.
At the end of the event, I had the opportunity to speak with the local fire chief, who assured me of the safety protocols in place for our elementary schools. He even showed me blueprints of the school’s layout and made a personal commitment to protect my child.
I left that breakfast feeling empowered—not just from the hearty meal but from having engaged in the political process. That fall, I cast my first vote in a local election, and it felt significant.
I vote not out of obligation or to engage in heated debates. I vote to reclaim a sense of control in a chaotic political landscape. When I hear disheartening political rhetoric, I remind myself that I possess the power to influence change with my vote. I vote because the individuals making decisions in my community are people I encounter in my everyday life. We are all constituents, as the Constitution suggests.
I am no longer the timid woman I once was. I vote in honor of those who fought for my right to participate in the electoral process, especially women who once faced barriers to voting. I vote because I stand by my beliefs and am no longer afraid to engage in political discussions. Each time I cast my vote, I feel a surge of empowerment.
So, whatever it takes, whether finding a babysitter or bringing your children along, make sure you prioritize voting this November.
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Summary
Engaging in the political process is essential, especially for parents concerned about their children’s safety and future. My journey from political apathy to empowerment began after witnessing a tragedy that prompted me to question local leaders about safety measures. Voting is not just a right; it’s a way to voice our beliefs and influence change in our communities.