Why My Partner Seems to Favor the Dog Over Me

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Princess Diana famously remarked, “There were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded.” I find myself resonating with that sentiment, albeit in a different context. Instead of a former lover vying for attention, my competition is a more innocent presence—our dog.

With his soulful brown eyes and a uniquely pungent aroma that wafts through the room, the dog has captured my partner’s heart. And it appears that the feeling is mutual; my partner’s world seems to revolve around this furry companion.

When my partner arrives home from work, his first instinct is to seek out the dog for a warm embrace. After ensuring the dog’s basic needs are met, he might finally turn his attention to me. However, I can’t help but wish for a little more acknowledgment—perhaps even a refreshing drink after a long day. To be fair, I’m not as inclined to reciprocate the affection with a lick on the face, but a simple “How was your day?” would be nice.

What Are My Options?

So, what are my options? Should I ignore this dynamic and rise above it? Perhaps transform into a shedding, slobbering creature myself? Or should I ally with the canine contender for my partner’s affection?

And it’s not just my partner; even our children seem to idolize the dog, despite his occasional accidents and penchant for chewing through socks. The dog enjoys lavish treatment, while we squeeze in a night out every couple of years. My partner and the dog embark on daily long walks, while our children are left with whatever can be whipped up from the pantry. The dog indulges in a premium raw-meat diet, while I often settle for leftovers. As for spa days? The dog has them, while I can only dream of a bubble bath.

A Heart-to-Heart Discussion?

I have contemplated a heart-to-heart discussion about who holds a greater place in my partner’s heart, but such a conversation would likely come off as desperate. After all, he chose to marry me, not the dog—though their 14-year bond is undeniably strong.

I don’t harbor any ill will toward our dog. He’s charming and well-behaved, albeit a bit neurotic, especially when it comes to my partner. Their connection is so deep that it could inspire a heartfelt ballad. Still, I look forward to the day when I no longer have to pick dog hair off the carpet.

Yet, the inevitable day will arrive when our furry friend is no longer with us. It will undoubtedly cast a shadow over our household. I can only hope that when that day comes, there might be a new, spirited four-legged companion awaiting us.

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In summary, the affection my partner shows our dog is endearing yet sometimes overwhelming. While I acknowledge this bond, I can’t help but wish for a bit more balance in our household dynamics. Perhaps, as we navigate these feelings, we can all find a way to coexist and appreciate each other’s roles in our family.