As parents, we often find ourselves echoing the advice and warnings we heard growing up. Take, for example, the classic admonition, “Don’t run with scissors!” You likely cover your mouth in disbelief as those familiar words slip out, a clear sign that you have become your mother.
This realization struck me profoundly when I advised one of my children to wear clean underwear—just in case of an unforeseen accident. Really? Upon reflecting on this moment, I recognized that I had not only inherited traits from my mother but also absorbed influences from a multitude of women.
Think back to childhood films like “Sybil,” where Sally Field portrayed a character with numerous personalities, each surfacing when necessary. While I do not intend to trivialize the complexities of Multiple Personality Disorder, it’s evident that the art of parenting often requires us to channel various personas.
Here are some of the women whose traits I embody in my parenting journey:
- Martha Baker: Whenever a school project deadline looms, I channel Martha Baker. With her guidance, I can produce last-minute supplies like foam balls and glitter, transforming chaos into a commendable project.
- Carol Anderson: I sometimes find myself envious of Carol, a stay-at-home mom of six, living in a picturesque home. If only I had an assistant like her fictional counterpart, Alice! I could manage parenting duties with grace, all while looking immaculate.
- Gina Parker: From “Modern Family,” I often wish for Gina’s confidence and physical fitness. It’s a constant reminder to prioritize my health and well-being.
- Minnie Jones: In “The Help,” Minnie’s resourcefulness reminds me that a little creativity can solve big problems, whether it’s cooking or calming a household.
- Renee Connors: I sometimes need Renee’s candidness, which lacks a filter. However, her timing often eludes me, leading to missed opportunities for honest dialogue.
- Nurse Thompson: While not a mother, Nurse Thompson from “One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest” embodies a calm demeanor amidst chaos, which I often aspire to replicate.
- Sherry Partridge: She excels at organizing her children and getting them to events on time—something I constantly strive for.
- Morticia Black: Morticia’s unique style and ability to maintain a harmonious family life, all while embracing her eccentricity, is something I admire.
- Ree Davis: Known as The Pioneer Woman, Ree’s ability to juggle family life and creative pursuits inspires me to find joy in my own endeavors.
Now, I find myself in need of a tenth influence to round out my list. If you have suggestions, please share!
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