Dear Children,

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I would like to discuss some important matters regarding our family dynamics. It appears we are a bit unconventional, and we often divulge too much information to those outside our immediate circle. While we may be more typical than I perceive, it seems other families have instilled in their children the understanding of appropriate topics and language for various settings.

This realization hit me recently when we visited a restaurant. Upon receiving a pager, one of you exclaimed, “It’s my turn to hold the vibrator!” This was a clear indicator that we need to establish some boundaries. It’s essential to recognize that you likely don’t know what a vibrator is, and your excitement stems from simply wanting to hold the device. That said, we should probably avoid placing pagers under our clothing in the future—who knows where they’ve been?

Practicing Discretion in Public

Let’s consider using quieter voices in public. It would be beneficial to refrain from shouting in public spaces, and instead, practice discretion about what we share. This could significantly reduce the times when I feel the urge to bury my head in embarrassment.

I understand that when I buy you a new toothbrush, you are thrilled—especially since I frequently remind you to maintain your dental hygiene. However, it is not conducive to our outing for you to unbag your toothbrush and toothpaste and start brushing at the water fountain while I’m temporarily away. Following instructions is crucial in these situations.

Understanding Appropriate Language

I admit I found your announcement of needing to take a “Trump dump” rather humorous the other day, but when I asked you not to repeat it, I meant it—regardless of my struggle to contain my laughter. You thought you were being funny, and it validated you when I reacted that way. However, sharing such phrases during a dinner gathering with guests isn’t appropriate; it’s best to keep certain things private so we can continue to enjoy those social interactions.

Reflecting on last year when you walked in on me at a moment of vulnerability, I explained the situation to you, but trust me—no one wants to hear that story repeatedly. While it was a moment of confusion for me, we should move past it. Perhaps it’s time to respect bathroom privacy a bit more.

Clarifying What to Share

Similarly, when your father was recovering from a medical procedure and you referred to it in a rather blunt manner, it became evident that we need to clarify what is suitable to share. If it pertains to private parts, it’s wise to check with either parent before discussing it openly, especially in public settings like the grocery store.

While expressing your feelings through hissing has been a creative outlet for you both, it’s important to reserve that for your siblings rather than directing it at adults, especially your teachers.

Embracing Our Quirky Family Spirit

As you both grow older, it is crucial to recognize that there are boundaries we should respect regarding what we share with others. We can still embrace our quirky family spirit, but let’s keep some of that within the confines of our home. This approach could lead to more invitations and social opportunities, which might be just as enjoyable as the occasional embarrassment.

In summary, let’s aim for more discretion in our conversations and actions. Such changes will not only make outings smoother but could also lead to fewer reprimands and lower my stress levels.

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