While I’ve never had the chance to communicate with the nation, Congress, or world leaders, I face a challenging audience daily: my kids. They manage to absorb every detail from Sportscenter and reality shows, yet somehow “put on your shoes” becomes a monumental task.
In my efforts to convey my thoughts effectively, I adopt a calm and understanding tone, similar to what I’ve read is best for communication. I try to express empathy: “I know you don’t want to wear your shoes, but it really is time.” I aim for logic: “You’ll appreciate having shoes on when we go outside. Remember, you love those shoes!”
Unfortunately, this method often falls flat. Here are six things I find myself saying that would be so much clearer if I had my own anger translator:
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“I’m sorry, sweetie, but we can’t go to a playdate today.”
“REALLY? I CAN BARELY HANDLE YOU TODAY, LET ALONE ANOTHER KID!” -
“I understand that these macaroni shapes are farm animals and not bunnies, but it’s still the same. Just give it a try!”
“FARM ANIMALS? BUNNIES? WHEN I WAS YOUR AGE, IT WAS JUST CALLED ‘PASTA.’ JUST EAT IT!” -
“It’s 16 degrees outside; it’s just not ‘shorts weather.’”
“WHY DO YOU KEEP DOING THIS? YOU THINK I WON’T NOTICE YOUR GOOSEBUMPS? PUT ON SOME PANTS!” -
“It’s homework time!”
“I GET IT, HOMEWORK IS DULL, BUT HANDING IT IN IS ESSENTIAL IF YOU DON’T WANT TO LIVE IN MY BASEMENT FOREVER. GRAB A PENCIL!” -
“You two are siblings—you should get along!”
“YOU CAN BE MAD ALL YOU WANT, JUST DO IT QUIETLY SO I CAN ENJOY MY COFFEE.” -
“Please, could you take your things up to your room?”
“ONCE UPON A TIME, MY KITCHEN TABLE WAS MESSY WITH TAKEOUT BOXES. NOW IT’S SOCCER BALLS AND SPIDER-MAN STUFF. IF I FIND YOUR DIRTY SHIN GUARD ON THE TABLE AGAIN, I MIGHT LOSE IT!”
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In summary, parenting can sometimes feel like a comedy of errors, especially when trying to communicate effectively. An anger translator might just make life a little easier!