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Dear Children,
I want to take a moment to share my thoughts on my decision to work outside the home. While some mothers may feel regret about balancing their careers with parenting, I do not share that sentiment.
Every morning, I leave for work knowing you are excited about the day ahead, engaging in fun activities without shedding tears. It brings me joy to know you cherish your time with your Nana, Gigi, and Pops, who have become some of your closest friends. Many children do not enjoy such a strong bond with their grandparents, and I appreciate that our family helps in nurturing that connection.
Because I work, you benefit from spending quality time with your capable father. This arrangement allows you to form meaningful relationships with other caregivers, illustrating the importance of having multiple loving figures in your life. You also witness both your parents sharing household responsibilities, which teaches you that teamwork is essential in maintaining a home.
While I may not have as much time as I would like to spend with you, I believe that the quality of our interactions outweighs the quantity. Research suggests that my working not only increases your chances of advanced education and higher earnings but also encourages you, my son, to be more engaged in parenting when the time comes.
You will have access to good schools and ample space to play in our backyard. Importantly, I find fulfillment in my career, and a happy, fulfilled mom is essential for a nurturing environment.
However, I do have my worries. I sometimes fear you might feel envious of children whose mothers stay home. I worry about missing milestones like your soccer games or band concerts, and I hope that my working will not lead you to blame me for any challenges you face in life. With many of my friends opting to stay home, you might feel isolated in thinking your mom is the only one who works, despite the fact that nearly 70% of mothers with children under 18 are part of the workforce.
Yet, amidst my concerns, I am incredibly grateful. You are witnessing your parents break traditional gender roles, which will likely empower you to do the same. I am thankful for the family support we have, which many parents lack. And most importantly, when I tuck you in at night after a long day, your loving kisses and “I love you, Mommy” reassure me that our bond is strong. My working does not diminish our love for each other.
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In summary, I embrace my role as a working mother because it enriches our lives and positively affects your future. The love in our family remains unchanged despite my work commitments.