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Navigating Christmas with My Interfaith Child
As a Jewish parent married to a Catholic partner, the holiday season has led me to reflect deeply on the figure of Jesus. This contemplation is somewhat unusual for me, yet it has become increasingly relevant in our family discussions, particularly as our 5-year-old, Lily, starts to inquire about spirituality and her own place in the world. With Christmas approaching, her curiosity about Jesus is inevitable.
Lily has recently expressed some confusion about religious figures. During one of our recent conversations, she asked, “You know that guy who saved the world? Umm…God?” To which I replied affirmatively. Then she questioned, “Why did Santa—I mean God—put Disney World in Florida? And why can’t Santa—I mean God—make the whole world Florida?” This exchange highlighted a significant gap in her understanding of our differing beliefs.
It’s clear that we have not adequately addressed her religious education. My husband and I have largely avoided the topic, as neither of us actively practices our faiths. We had planned to introduce our beliefs more thoroughly, allowing her to form her conclusions. However, I now realize that expecting a 5-year-old to grapple with profound theological concepts is quite a challenge.
Given that Lily is currently in a “Mommy phase,” she might naturally lean towards my perspective, favoring the Old Testament over the New Testament. Yet, I also recognize that, in her teenage years, she may rebel against my views in unexpected ways. For now, we must present these complex ideas about God and Christianity in simple terms, gradually introducing her to these profound concepts. After all, Christmas can be likened to a festive birthday celebration, something every child delights in, especially with the promise of presents.
As we navigate this journey, I hope Lily understands that some questions remain unanswered—similar to how she accepts that soda is generally unhealthy, despite my indulgence in Diet Dr. Pepper. At this tender age, no matter how effectively we explain the significance of Christmas, it is likely to be viewed primarily as “Anna and Elsa Gift Day” in her eyes.
Ultimately, as long as her imagination doesn’t stretch to envisioning Jesus transforming the Earth into a grand amusement park, I believe we are on the right track.
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In summary, discussing Christmas with our interfaith child requires careful consideration and simplicity. As we navigate these conversations, we must remember to present our beliefs in a way that is accessible to her young mind while nurturing her curiosity about the world around her.