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Why I’ve Let Go of the Pressure to Have a Personal Style
In my journey of self-discovery, I have come to a significant realization: I no longer feel the need to stress about cultivating a personal style. Now, my approach to clothing is simply about selecting items that I enjoy and that are suitable for the occasion, rather than worrying if they reflect “who I am.” Similarly, when it comes to my living space, my focus is on making it comfortable, aesthetically pleasing, and practical, rather than expressing a so-called “unique style.”
This shift in mindset has allowed me to focus on what truly interests me: writing. I express myself through my words, which I find far more fulfilling than fretting over the appearance of my shoes or the décor of my curtains. I’ve learned that it’s unnecessary to overanalyze decisions regarding things that don’t genuinely captivate me.
Many people derive immense joy from curating their choices, taking the time to find what resonates with them. However, I’ve realized a fundamental truth of adulthood: what is enjoyable for one person may not be for another. Thus, I prefer not to expend mental energy on choices that don’t matter to me. This perspective aligns with findings from social psychologist Roy Baumeister, who suggests that the pursuit of authenticity can consume valuable mental resources, which could be better utilized elsewhere.
Interestingly, while I’ve released the notion of expressing my personal style, I’ve also reflected on my personal commitment to “Be Emily.” Although these concepts may sound similar, they are distinct. The more I focused on being myself, the clearer my understanding of my tastes became. For instance, I’ve developed a fondness for the works of renowned artist Louis Comfort Tiffany, particularly his creation, Laurelton Hall—a realization that brings me joy.
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In summary, I’ve learned to embrace simplicity when it comes to personal style, recognizing that true expression lies in what genuinely resonates with me. By focusing on my passions, I have cultivated a clearer understanding of my tastes without the burden of societal expectations.