Dear Future Big Brother or Sister,

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Congratulations on your upcoming promotion to sibling! While some may see this change as an exciting new chapter, it’s essential to acknowledge the complexities of welcoming a new baby into your family. Your parents may refer to this as “having a sibling,” but let’s be honest; it often feels more like they’ve ordered a “Baby 2.0,” leaving you to navigate the unknown territory of shared attention and resources.

As you prepare for this transition, it’s crucial to remember your unique position within the family. If you consider yourself the reigning monarch of your household, understand that your new sibling may not recognize your royal status—after all, babies are notorious for their lack of respect for authority and usually don’t tune into popular shows like Game of Thrones.

Babies are inherently needy, requiring constant attention and care, regardless of how advanced they may seem. Even the latest models of babies (which you’d think would come with some self-sufficient features) still demand round-the-clock nurturing. In light of this, it’s vital to arm yourself with strategies that can help you cope with the impending changes.

Here are some recommended tactics:

1. Embrace Stillness: Pretend your legs are like strands of yarn; they can’t support you, so neither should you. This can be a useful tactic for avoiding car seats and other situations you wish to escape.
2. Become Unyielding: If the yarn approach wears thin, channel your inner steel rod. Maintain your rigidity when it’s time to buckle up; steel rods do not bend, and neither should you. Remember, “DO NOT BEND” is your new mantra.
3. Channel Colic: Although you may have outgrown this phase, remember that desperate times call for desperate measures.
4. Vegetable Experimentation: Test your limits with vegetables—particularly carrots. Go beyond your comfort zone and ensure the results are memorable for your parents.
5. Set Alarms: Conceal an alarm clock in your crib, programmed to remind you (and your parents) that sleep is for the weak. Crying and even banging on the crib can be effective methods to keep them on their toes.
6. Avoid Cuteness: This may be challenging given your natural charm. However, smearing food on your face can lessen your appeal when it comes to competing for attention.
7. Sound Alerts: When encountering babies, unleash a high-pitched scream to signal your disapproval. Hold that note and follow up with a dramatic display of displeasure.

Preparing for the arrival of a new sibling can feel overwhelming, but remember, you have the power to voice your feelings. For those interested in the journey of parenthood, resources like the CDC’s information on infertility and pregnancy can be invaluable. You might also find insights on navigating the family dynamics in your own home by exploring articles about intracervical insemination or consulting experts at Make a Mom.

Summary:

Transitioning to a role as an older sibling involves navigating a range of emotions and adjustments. While the arrival of a new baby may bring challenges, employing some strategic approaches can help ease the process. Embrace your individuality, communicate your feelings, and utilize available resources to support your family’s journey.