17 Parenting Choices I’d Make Differently

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If I had the chance to raise a family all over again, I wouldn’t hesitate. However, I’d definitely approach it a bit differently. It’s funny how much clearer things become once you step back and reflect, especially after the kids head off to college. During that time, I had the opportunity to think about my parenting journey and the lessons learned. With a little distance, I can see how valuable time really is. It’s about the moments we share as a family, the decisions we make, and the joy (or chaos) that comes with it all. Here’s what I’d change if I could do it again:

1. Take Breaks from Parenting: I’d allow myself the freedom to not be on call all the time. It’s essential to maintain a sense of self outside of being a parent.
2. Ignore the Laundry: Seriously, no one’s going to fire me for a little mess.
3. Prioritize Date Nights: Regular evenings out with my partner, even if it’s just a quick dinner at home, are crucial for keeping the spark alive.
4. Join in the Fun: I’d swing on the swings with the kids. Let’s face it, having fun is way better when you’re in it together.
5. Ditch the To-Do Lists: I’d realize that writing down tasks doesn’t mean I’m accomplishing anything new.
6. Prioritize Sleep: More sleep, better sleep — it’s vital for everyone’s sanity.
7. Worry Less: I’d focus on keeping worries short and sweet, instead of letting them drag me down.
8. Be Chill About Messy Rooms: Kids’ rooms get messy, but they’ll be grown and gone before I know it.
9. Savor Tea Time: I’d take the time to enjoy the simple act of making and drinking tea. It’s surprisingly zen.
10. Dance Like No One’s Watching: No matter how silly I look, moving to music is a great way to bond.
11. Document Bedtime Stories: I’d write down those imaginative tales I make up, plus the ones my kids create. Memories fade, but words last.
12. Travel More: No matter the obstacles, the experiences gained from travel are irreplaceable.
13. Step Out of My Comfort Zone: I’d be a role model by pursuing my dreams and encouraging my kids to do the same.
14. Drink More Milk: Strong bones mean I can keep up with my kids — and one day, their kids too!
15. Be Real with Unpleasant People: I can’t change them, and that’s okay.
16. Learn to Knit: It’s therapeutic, and there’s always someone who needs a cozy sweater or blanket.
17. Revisit #8: Seriously, those messy rooms won’t last forever, so I’d let it go.

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In summary, parenting is a journey filled with lessons, and if I had the chance, I would embrace the chaos while making more time for joy, connection, and self-care.