Hey there, Mom of the Kid Who Won’t Join In

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I saw you the other day, and I felt your frustration. I could see how you were trying everything—coaxing, urging, even bribing—just to get your little one to participate. You probably had dreams of your child being the next baseball star or a graceful dancer, but instead, you find yourself with a kid who’s clinging to you like a lifeline, terrified to try anything new.

You watch other kids happily engaging, and you can’t help but wonder: Why isn’t my child getting in on the fun? You start imagining all the worst-case scenarios—like your kid being the last one picked for kickball or missing out on swim lessons that could make them a star swimmer one day. It’s a tough spot to be in, and the more they resist, the more anxiety builds up for both of you.

Trust me, I’ve been there. When my youngest, Max, was three, I thought signing him up for a toddler basketball class would be a great idea. But he had other plans—sticking to me like glue while the other kids ran around having a blast. I stressed about his future as a basketball player for weeks, when really, I should have realized he just wasn’t ready yet.

And then there was the time I thought ice skating would be a great alternative. I mean, if he was going to be a hockey player, he had to learn, right? But as I dragged him onto the ice, he was terrified, clinging to me for dear life. Every week I tried to get him excited about the lessons, but nothing worked. He never participated in those either.

But Here’s What I Want You to Know

It will happen. Max is now nine and is thriving as a baseball player and swimmer. Just the other day, he asked me if he could take skating lessons! So take a deep breath, and remember, your child will find their way in their own time. Whether it’s in five minutes or five years, they’ll let you know when they’re ready to join in.

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Summary

It’s completely normal to feel frustrated when your child refuses to participate in activities. Remember, every child has their own pace, and eventually, they will find their way. Take a breath, and be patient; your child will join in when they are ready.