I Used to Think Nut Allergies Were Nonsense

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When my oldest kiddo, Mia, started second grade, we received a letter that shook our little peanut butter-loving family to its core. Apparently, one of her classmates had a nut allergy, and the entire grade was going nut-free as a precaution. My frustration knew no bounds!

Mia was an incredibly picky eater, and peanut butter was one of the few foods she would actually eat. Why couldn’t that allergic child just sit at a different table? Why should the whole grade be put on lockdown for one kid? The world isn’t nut-free, for crying out loud! I ranted to my friends on social media and rolled my eyes every time I packed a turkey sandwich, fully aware that it would likely end up in the trash after a few bites. I thought nut allergies were just ridiculous.

Fast forward four years, and guess what? My youngest, Leo, now has a nut allergy. Talk about karma! Thankfully, it’s relatively mild so far, but they say it could worsen with exposure. So, no testing the waters with a jar of peanut butter in our kitchen!

While we’re cautious at home, making sure to educate all our kids about potential triggers, I still feel a wave of panic every time Leo heads out into the world. He can barely remember to put on pants without a reminder—he’s only five! How can I trust him to avoid any food that might have even a hint of peanut?

Navigating this new reality is overwhelming. I’ve considered homeschooling, but I can’t afford to quit my job for that. It’s not like you can score a disability check for a food allergy (I checked that out, too). So, every day, I send my little one to school, hoping that other parents will respect the nut-free policy and understand that I’m not trying to make their lives harder. Having a child with a nut allergy is no joke; it adds a layer of anxiety to parenting that nobody wants.

Nut allergies are real, not some wild exaggeration parents made up. Even if I used to roll my eyes at them, I’ve learned the hard way that they deserve serious attention.

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In summary, I used to think nut allergies were a bunch of nonsense until one of my own kids was diagnosed. Now, I understand the real fears that come with it, and I hope others do too.