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10 Things to Anticipate with Your Tweenager
Hey there, fellow parents! As someone who’s navigating the tween years with my son, I’ve experienced a whirlwind of changes since he turned 10. At first, it felt like a slow crawl, but soon enough, it was like being hit by a freight train. Tweens are at that awkward age where they’re too old for playdates yet still too young for real dating—complete with a delightful mix of attitude and eye-rolling. Buckle up, because these years can be challenging! Here’s what you should be prepared for as you journey through this phase.
- Mood Swings Galore
Get ready for some serious emotional roller coasters! One moment they’re all smiles, and the next they’re in tears. Seriously, don’t bother trying to figure out what flipped the switch—just brace yourself! - Avoid Direct Eye Contact
Looking them straight in the eye might just send them spiraling into a mood. They’re like emotional landmines, so proceed with caution! - Last-Minute Outfit Changes
If you plan to go out, give yourself extra time. Your tween will likely want to change their outfit several times. It’s best to factor in at least 20 extra minutes for these fashion crises. - Disdain for Everything
Tweens have a knack for being critical. They often express strong dislike for almost everything, so don’t take it personally when they shrug off your favorite things. - Eye-Rolling is Standard
If you notice them rolling their eyes, don’t panic—it’s just part of their repertoire. You’ll find this happens most often when you’re trying to talk to them. - Rapid Body Changes
Along with their shifting moods, their bodies are changing too. Tread lightly here; bring up topics like shopping for new clothes subtly. You might say, “I’m heading out for some shopping, want to join?” - Tears on Demand
Prepare for some serious crying jags. These aren’t just a couple of tears—think full-blown sobbing sessions. When they start, just nod and wait it out; there’s no point in trying to decipher the chaos. - Personal Space is Key
Keep a safe distance when they’re with friends—like a 10-foot rule! Affection in public? Forget about it! - Grunts as Communication
You’ll hear more grunts than actual words. These sounds often replace speech during emotional moments, and you’ll quickly learn what they mean. - Exhaustion is Real
With all the highs and lows, it’s no wonder they seem so drained. Let’s just call it what it is—laziness, or perhaps just a side effect of all that emotional turmoil.
Hang in there! This is merely a phase, albeit a lengthy one. Before you know it, they’ll be a full-fledged teenager, and trust me, things will ramp up even more. For a little light reading on home insemination, check out this resource. If you’re looking for more resources, this site offers some great info, and this page is a fantastic resource for pregnancy and home insemination.
Summary
Parenting a tween comes with its unique set of challenges, from mood swings and outfit changes to a complete disdain for everything. Understanding these changes can help you navigate this tricky phase. Remember, it’s temporary, and soon enough they’ll be a teen, bringing new adventures and challenges.