6 Outrageous Strategies to Make Your Family Vacation Bearable

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Let’s be real: taking a vacation with kids is less about relaxation and more about chaos. It’s basically a meticulously planned adventure filled with packing, unpacking, and the inevitable forgotten toy or favorite sweatshirt. Once you arrive—whether it’s at a sunny beach, a serene mountain retreat, or a bustling city—you quickly realize that the same parenting challenges await you. Expect whining, fights, and a total lack of gratitude for your extraordinary efforts. And yes, there might be tears, stomach bugs, and strange bug bites that could lead to something a bit more serious.

By the time your “vacation” comes to an end, you may find yourself wishing for that dentist appointment you avoided instead of spending endless hours with your kids. So, how can you shift a stressful trip into a more enjoyable experience for everyone? Here are some radical suggestions:

  1. Manage Your Expectations. Seriously, lower them! Thought your kids would be thrilled to explore Hawaii’s beaches or wander through Parisian streets? Not likely! Kids have a short attention span, so anticipate only one family activity per day—maybe a museum visit or a hike. The less you expect, the more surprises you might get. And hey, if all else fails, screen time is still a valid activity!
  2. Embrace Continuous Screen Time. We all agree it’s okay for kids to binge on screens during travel, but what about once you settle in? Relax. Kids need downtime too, and if they want to zone out on their devices, let them. You’ll appreciate the peace while enjoying your drink.
  3. Know Where to Find Your Next Drink. When your kids start arguing over hotel room keys, don’t fight the urge to escape with a refreshing drink. During our trip to Amsterdam, we discovered a playground with a bar right next to it. That’s the kind of creative thinking that can salvage your day!
  4. Consider Hiring a Babysitter. Trusting your kids with a stranger might be intimidating, but a kid-free night can redefine what a vacation means. When I was little, my parents left my sister and me with a local babysitter in Africa while they enjoyed a dinner out. Nowadays, many hotels offer certified babysitting services, so you can feel confident about taking a break.
  5. Utilize Bribes Wisely. When you and your partner want to visit a historical museum, but the kids are pleading for a toy store, that’s your cue to negotiate. How about some ice cream for both lunch and dinner? Or offer them a couple of bucks to sweeten the deal? It’s all about survival when traveling with kids!
  6. Loosen the Rules. Remember, your kids are on vacation too! Don’t stress if they stay up late, skip vegetables, or go a few days without a bath. They’ll survive, and so will you! Sometimes, bending the rules is what you need to truly unwind.

Every vacation has its memorable moments, and you’ll want to capture those in photos to share later (because let’s face it, social media loves a good family pic). In the end, your family trip might just turn out to be a delightful adventure after all—right?

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Summary:

Family vacations can often feel more like a chaotic trip than a relaxing getaway. By managing your expectations, embracing screen time, finding opportunities for adult enjoyment, and being flexible with rules, you can turn your vacation into a more enjoyable experience for everyone. Capture the highlights and remember to share those moments with friends!