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To My Child: I Understand You, Even When Others Don’t
Hey there, my little superstar,
I have to be honest: some mornings when you head off to school, I feel a little tug at my heart. I’ve done everything I can to prepare you for the world, but there’s still that nagging worry. Life can be tough, and I know kids can be harsh—sometimes even adults can be worse. I see you grappling with feeling misunderstood, and my heart aches for you.
But guess what? I totally get you.
As wild as it may sound (and yes, I know I might be a bit kooky), there are times I wish I could turn back the clock and have just one more day with you as a baby. Not because you’re anything less than I ever dreamed—you’re even more than I imagined. It’s just that back then, I could shield you from the harshness of the world. I didn’t have to send you out into a place that can be so intimidating. I didn’t have to worry about someone hurting your feelings or dimming your spirit. When you were upset, I could just wave that silly stuffed animal in front of you to bring a smile. When fear crept in, I could lift you up and say, “I’m here for you.”
If I could hold you as a baby for just one more day, I would cherish every moment. I’d watch your little face light up as you drifted off to sleep in my arms. I’d be right there to figure out what’s bothering you if you cried, and I’d happily play with you on the floor, surrounded by your favorite toys. You only needed me and your dad’s love and attention, and I could give you everything you wanted.
Wow, writing that down sounds a bit self-serving, doesn’t it? Protecting you would ease my own worries, which is a natural instinct of motherhood. But I realize that I have to let you face life as it comes. I can’t shield you from the nervousness of the lunchroom or the challenges of growing up. You need to experience setbacks, fear, and sadness to truly appreciate all the joyful moments that life offers.
You might not always fit into the mold of what other kids like or how they act. You have your own unique style, and that’s what makes you special. You may run into kids who don’t understand your individuality, but let me tell you something—you’re incredibly strong, probably stronger than I am. You inspire me every day. I know that one day, you will take on the world with your unique qualities and turn them into something amazing. Don’t ever feel pressured to change just to blend in. Remember, you’re never alone. If things ever get overwhelming, just call me, and I’ll be there to support you.
I have to admit, I’m always going to be a bit of a worrywart, and it’s tough to know I can’t be right by your side with a safety net. I can’t wrap you up in bubble wrap and ensure nothing ever goes wrong. But on those tough days, remember that I’m always here for you. No matter what happens—even if you hit that teenage phase where you think I’m the worst—or as you grow into your own life, I’ll always be in your corner. Just stay true to yourself. You were never meant to be anyone else.
I understand you, and I’m so incredibly grateful to have you in my life.
Love,
Your Biggest Fan
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Summary
This heartfelt letter from a mother to her child expresses deep understanding and love while addressing the challenges they may face growing up. It reassures the child that they are unique and strong, emphasizing the importance of embracing their individuality. The mother acknowledges her worries but ultimately supports her child’s independence and personal growth.