Hey there! I may only be a couple of years into this parenting adventure, but I’ve encountered a mountain of advice on marriage and raising kids—probably enough to fill two decades’ worth of parenting blogs. Yet, much of it just doesn’t resonate with me. Why? Because it feels like everyone is reciting the same old script, and it often doesn’t fit my unique situation.
Remember, you and your partner are one-of-a-kind! Just because some list on a popular parenting site claims that every couple should leave their 7-month-old with a babysitter and catch a movie doesn’t mean it’s the right move for you. If you’re not the “dinner-and-a-movie” type, don’t force it!
So what can you do? Here are five friendly tips:
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Follow Your Baby’s Lead
Don’t let your best friend, family, or trendy parenting groups dictate your baby’s needs. Just because someone swears by scheduled naps or prefers pumping, doesn’t mean you have to follow suit. Pay attention to your baby’s cues and personality. You know your little one best! Maybe cozying up on the couch with your partner and your baby is the best way to bond—so go for it!
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Find What Fits Your Family
Decide whether co-sleeping, the cry-it-out method, or gentle parenting resonates with you. Trust your instincts, because they’ll lead you in the right direction for your family. Forget about what others think; you know what feels right for you and your partner.
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Let Go of Comparisons
It’s only natural to feel a twinge of jealousy when you hear about a friend whose partner sings lullabies while she sleeps like a baby herself. Or when a family member boasts about their toddler mastering potty training at lightning speed. Remember, parenting isn’t a competition! Focus on what you can do and celebrate your own victories without worrying about medals or awards.
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Savor the Moment
Take a moment to appreciate the now—whether it’s a quick cuddle or a shared laugh while wrestling with your toddler, every moment counts. When you welcomed your baby, your partnership transformed into something new, and it will continue to evolve. Cherish the small things today, even if they involve some chaotic wrangling.
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Skip the Lists
I don’t know you, your partner, or your child. So, instead of relying on lists like these, trust your own judgment. Go back to tip No. 2—your intuition is your best guide!
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Summary
Parenting and marriage are deeply personal journeys, and the best advice is the one that resonates with you and your partner. Focus on your unique family dynamics, trust your instincts, and don’t get caught up in comparisons. Remember to relish the moments you have today!