Are Toddlers Really That Dull, or Is It Just Me?

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We all understand that newborns are pretty uneventful. For the first few months, they mainly sleep, cry, eat, and, well, poop. That’s the extent of their activities. Yet, we find their mundane behavior charming—after all, we have a baby! Every little thing they do, from yawning to passing gas, feels like a monumental event, allowing us to ignore the fact that they’re basically just little blobs with insane sleep schedules.

I had always assumed that as kids grow, they become more engaging. They go from rolling over to walking, from cooing to chatting, and while some things about them change, I figured their entertainment value would increase as well. Turns out, that’s a misconception.

Toddlers? They are incredibly boring.

Sure, they can move around and communicate in their own quirky ways, but their hobbies are mind-numbingly dull. Here are some “fun” activities my toddlers enjoy, and I use that term very loosely:

1. Standing Outside: They can spend ages just standing in our backyard, doing absolutely nothing.
2. Puzzles: Sure, puzzles can be enjoyable, but I’m talking about ones that are challenging and have more than 12 pieces—not the same 61-piece puzzle we’ve done a million times.
3. Playing with Dried Beans: I hand them bowls of dried beans and measuring cups, and they happily move the beans around for what feels like an eternity.
4. Hide and Seek: This isn’t advanced hide and seek; it’s my 2-year-old hiding under a blanket and giggling uncontrollably until I find him.

These activities are less than thrilling. Sometimes, I feel like my brain is turning to mush from the sheer lack of stimulation. Is it possible that I’m the boring one? Am I finding them dull because I’m not exactly a thrill-seeker myself?

No way! I’m a blast! Just look at how I spend my time. I enjoy binge-watching reruns of my favorite shows because I’m convinced that newer series just won’t measure up to classics like The Office, Scrubs, and Parks and Recreation. My disappointment in newer shows isn’t a reflection of my personality, right?

I love diving into memoirs written by fascinating women, which makes me feel like I’m living vicariously through them. Does that make me less interesting? I also enjoy solitary walks in familiar places, but wait—do I even have friends anymore?

Yikes. Maybe I really am the boring one.

I often think my kids might seem dull because I’m a bit mundane myself. But the truth is, I haven’t done anything to stifle their growth or excitement. I’m just being me. I like cozy Friday nights with a Jack and Coke and a ’90s rom-com. I find enjoyment in playing Solitaire before bed to wind down. I adore people-watching at coffee shops because, frankly, people are fascinating.

From the outside, I might come off as boring, but I’ve got my own charm. I’m well-read, witty, and can be the life of the party when needed. And that’s perfectly okay with me.

My kids might be a bit “blah” right now, but toddlerhood is just a phase. As everyone has told me since the day they were born, in the blink of an eye, they’ll be off to college, getting married, or raising their own kids. Soon enough, they’ll be in school, exploring the world, and their interests will expand beyond building block towers. They’ll get curious and start asking questions, and I’ll be there to support them every step of the way.

And if they choose to spend their days reading in their rooms, that’s absolutely fine by me. It may not be the most exciting picture, but if it brings them joy, that’s what truly counts.

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Summary

The author reflects on the perceived dullness of toddlerhood and whether that boredom may stem from her own personality. While toddlers engage in seemingly mundane activities, the author recognizes that this phase is temporary, and she embraces her own interests while supporting her children’s growth.