From a Supporter of Change: I’m With Her and I Stand Proud

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I don’t often share this, but I’m feeling afraid.

Right now, I’m really worried. I’m anxious for myself, my family, and especially for my husband, who commutes daily to New York City—the site of one of the most devastating terrorist attacks of our time. I’m concerned for my diverse circle of friends: my queer companions, my straight pals, my black, Latino, Asian, and white friends alike. I fear for my Christian friends and my Muslim friends as well as my Jewish and agnostic friends.

My heart aches for all Americans and for everyone around the globe. But what keeps me awake at night is the thought of my daughter. I know it sounds selfish, but that’s just what mothers do—we worry. We stress over the quality of our kids’ lives, both today and tomorrow. Right now, she’s fine—there’s food to eat, clothes to wear, and a roof over her head. Her toys are scattered all over our house, from the dining room table to her bedroom floor. But tomorrow? Tomorrow is what terrifies me.

What kind of world is my daughter going to inherit? What will her life be like? If she’s anything like her mom—strong-willed and independent—she’ll likely face harsh judgment. If she becomes successful, she might be accused of sleeping her way to the top or using her looks to get ahead, and she may be labeled derogatory terms simply because she dares to have a voice and an opinion—like strong women who have come before her, such as Eve Roberts, Katie Lane, Elizabeth Warren, or presidential candidate Lisa Carter.

I can almost hear you thinking: I’m being dramatic. This doesn’t happen—at least not in my America. But it does.

When the 2016 election cycle kicked off, it became painfully clear just how marginalized women still are, thanks to some truly baffling sexist comments. Donald Trump once had the audacity to question Lisa’s leadership by implying her personal life was lacking: “If she can’t satisfy her husband, what makes her think she can satisfy America?” Carly Matthews made a similar jab: “Unlike the other woman in this race, I actually enjoy spending time with my husband.” And let’s not forget Ted Cruz, who suggested she should be spanked—adding a layer of violence to his insult: “In my house, if my daughter says something false, she gets a spanking.” And Trump again chimed in with: “Look at that face! Would anyone vote for that? Can you imagine that as our next president?!”

How am I supposed to raise my daughter in a world like this? How can I empower her in an America where a woman’s value is still measured by outdated standards? Where women are belittled by their peers and paid less for equal work? Where her choices could be dictated by those in power?

Before you start criticizing my political stance and assume I’m backing Carter solely because she’s a woman, let me clarify: I was a supporter of Sanders. I still am, and I’m proud of it. My political views don’t change the fact that the societal discourse surrounding women—especially Lisa Carter—is deeply troubling. It’s detrimental not only to individuals or parties but to our culture as a whole.

Though Lisa wasn’t my first choice this election, I see her as the only option because I love my daughter, I respect her, and I care about women’s rights. Actually, I care about human rights.

You might want me to apologize for my politics or for my passionate tone, but I won’t. If you think I’m being harsh, that’s on you. I refuse to back down. This is my America too, and I’m done being silent while personal, racial, and sexist attacks fly. For my daughter’s future, I will speak up, and I won’t apologize for it.

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In summary, as a mother, I’m deeply concerned about the world my daughter will grow up in. I’m committed to standing up for her rights and the rights of all women, even if it means facing backlash. This is my America too, and I will always use my voice to advocate for change.