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Hey Dads, Snap That Shot!
All fathers should pay attention to this!
Take a moment to scroll through your phone and check out the photos. If you’re like many moms, your camera roll is filled with snapshots of your kids, featuring a few cameos from dad here and there, dating back to when you first got your device. However, what’s likely missing are those cherished pictures of you with your children, and this oversight needs to be fixed ASAP, as one mom sweetly points out.
Ella Martin, the Australian mom behind the blog The Joyful Parent, recently shared a vital reminder on Instagram that every dad (and mom) should take to heart.
The photo shows Martin enjoying some quality time with her little boy, Jamie, while their newborn daughter, Mia, peacefully sleeps. The caption states, “Hey Dads, snap that shot. Take the darn photo! We spend countless hours capturing those precious moments of you and the kids. So whenever you see us with our babies, in a sweet candid moment, take the darn photo. Cheers, Moms.”
Absolutely! Moms often take on the role of the family photographer, which means they frequently end up on the sidelines—literally. In this smartphone era, dads are just as capable of snapping photos, yet many don’t think to capture those small, everyday moments that aren’t tied to a holiday or special occasion. Martin’s husband preserved a simple yet sweet moment—Ella lounging on the couch, gently caressing their little guy’s leg—and it’s stunning. This is the kind of memory every mom will treasure as her kids grow, allowing her to reminisce about those tender cuddles and unposed moments.
Let’s not forget that dads aren’t solely responsible for the lack of “mommy and me” photos—some of us might grumble when our partners attempt to take a candid shot while we feel less than fabulous. But still, let him take that darn photo. Trust me, I have regrets you can learn from.
I can count on one hand how many spontaneous photos I have with my kids. Posed pictures? Sure, we have a ton. But those everyday moments of lounging on the couch or playing outside are few and far between. I remember when my husband would try to snap a few shots of me with our little ones, and I’d dodge the frame, saying I looked terrible. Eventually, he stopped trying.
Now that my kids are older, I would give anything to have a collection of photos like the one Martin’s husband captured. As the years go by, those baby and toddler days are starting to blur in my memory. Having tangible reminders like this would be incredible.
Everyday photos are invaluable, and Ella is spot on. Here’s hoping her post inspires more dads to “snap that shot” and encourages more moms to embrace the moment.
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Summary
Dads, it’s time to take the photos! Moms often capture moments with the kids but are frequently absent from the pictures themselves. Ella Martin’s reminder on Instagram encourages fathers to snap those candid shots, highlighting the importance of documenting everyday life. As children grow, these memories become precious keepsakes, and both parents should work together to ensure mom is included in the family album.