Hey there, amazing trans kids navigating this wild political landscape, where it might feel like a fifth of your youth is overshadowed by uncertainty. I want to share something important with you: the world is vast and filled with kindness you may not yet see.
In my town, there’s an online community buzzing with thousands of folks who are ready to lend a hand and share resources. But there’s a little twist—you have to be “queer.” Now, “queer” might sound like a quirky term, but it’s one that the LGBTQIA community has embraced. It’s a way of saying, “I don’t quite fit into the box society has built for me.”
Now, I might not look like your typical queer person—I’m married to a straight guy, have kids, and attend PTA meetings. But let me tell you, I am queer to the core. This online hub for queer individuals has connected me with friends, my kids’ nanny, job leads, furniture finds, and new books. It’s where I’ve learned to support my local queer community by shopping at queer-owned businesses and advocating for queer rights.
These are the incredible, empathetic souls you want alongside you, cheering for your success and ready to uplift others as they rise. I’ve met college professors eager to assist their LGBTQIA students, gender-nonconforming artists who rescue and train dogs to support those with PTSD, and folks exploring their identities while supporting loved ones through their transitions. There are many who don’t fit neatly into any label but are discovering themselves after the tumult of adolescence.
To all you kids feeling lost, angry, or hurt—your feelings are valid. Childhood, while often magical, can also be a minefield of confusion and pain. Being different can make everything feel more complicated.
It might seem like no one cares, especially when the people in power target and dehumanize you. But let me assure you, they don’t represent the entire world. A large, growing community cares deeply. You might not know how to connect with them just yet, and they might not know how to reach you either—but trust me, they’re out there, ready to support you.
They’re primed to help you find jobs, locate doctors, and secure funds for education. They have sage advice on everything from hormone therapy to the nuances of gender identity because they’ve walked similar paths. They want to chat about movies, representation, and even cupcakes and puppies.
They’re eager to help you furnish your first apartment and set up a bank account. They are waiting with open arms to welcome you into their lives, regardless of the chaos in Washington. And yes, they might not all look extravagantly queer; sometimes, they blend in like any mom in a minivan, rallying for safe school policies for all kids.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed and the world seems harsh, I won’t deny your pain is real. The distress you feel is valid. The news is filled with negativity, but that’s not the complete story.
The reality is there are more queer people around you than you realize. And even more allies who support your journey to live authentically and safely, wanting you to be loved for who you truly are.
Don’t lose hope. Don’t abandon yourself or the community that loves you and fights for you every single day. We’re here, ready to embrace you and help you thrive.
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Summary
This heartfelt message encourages trans kids to embrace their identities and seek support in a seemingly hostile environment. It highlights the existence of a caring community ready to uplift and assist them, emphasizing that they are not alone in their struggles.