When you’re a mom, the day can stretch on forever—between the morning hustle, the long spans of work or childcare, and the whirlwind of dinner, bath, book, and bedtime. It can be exhausting! However, there are certain things that could lighten the load if only they were offered. Here are 17 things that moms, at least those in my circle, will never turn down.
- Delegating Decisions: From the moment pregnancy begins, motherhood is filled with choices: hospital or birthing center? Nanny or daycare? Stay at home or return to work? If we could hand over all these decisions to a helpful robot (that would choose just like us), we’d be incredibly relieved.
- A Day Designed by Us: Give us a day where everything is based on our moods, energy levels, hunger, and fatigue.
- Twenty Minutes of Pause: Imagine a scenario where time halts for 20 minutes while we manage the chaos of returning home—emptying lunch boxes, putting away shoes, and prepping dinner. If we could freeze time just for a moment, it would be bliss.
- “Can I Hold the Baby?”: It’s a simple offer that means the world when we need a break.
- Early Morning Coffee: Someone who quietly wakes up with the kids at dawn and brings us coffee in bed, without expecting anything in return—this is a fantasy we’d love to see become a reality.
- Friends Who Visit: Having friends come to our home for a chill hangout can be the best form of support and companionship.
- A Clean Car: Opening the car door often reveals a mini disaster zone—expired snacks, lost pens, and who knows what else. A detailed cleaning would be a dream come true.
- A Latte on the Way: Just the thought of someone asking, “Can I grab you a latte?” brings joy to our hearts.
- Unlimited Shower Time: Back in the newborn phase, every shower felt like a race against time. We fantasize about long, leisurely showers where we can wash our whole bodies without the stress of interruptions.
- Dishes Done After Dinner: If only someone would just take care of the dishes after meals—what a relief that would be!
- Brushing Toddler Teeth: An offer to help with the never-ending battle of brushing a toddler’s teeth would be met with enthusiastic acceptance.
- Unscheduled Moments: As planners, it’s hard to relax when there’s always something lingering on the to-do list. A moment where the list fades away would feel like paradise.
- Gassing Up the Car: Especially with little ones in tow, finding time to fill the tank becomes a task of monumental proportions when there’s no pay-at-the-pump option.
- Time Alone: Whether it’s a peaceful moment to read, bathe, or even run errands solo, we all crave that cherished alone time.
- Partner-Supported Kids’ Outings: When our partners take the kids to their parents’ house without us, it feels like a mini-vacation.
- Girls’ Weekend Away: Spending time just as friends, without the responsibilities of motherhood, is a refreshing escape we cherish.
- Free Babysitting: The ultimate gift! While we love date nights, the cost of sitters often makes them feel out of reach. Free babysitting is something we would never decline.
So if you’re looking for one thing that moms will always say “yes” to, it’s definitely free babysitting—our top pick!
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Summary
Motherhood is packed with endless decisions and responsibilities, but there are moments and offers that can truly make a difference. From delegating choices to enjoying uninterrupted time for self-care, these are the things that moms will always welcome with open arms.