Growing up, I didn’t have the chance to be close to my grandparents, and I missed out on the joy it brings to my kids. There’s something truly magical about having someone who thinks every word out of your mouth is pure genius and who is dedicated to ensuring you have the time of your life. Those individuals who see climbing on tables as a charming act of independence and cheer you on for finishing your milk? Yes, please! My kids are fortunate to have amazing grandparents, and I often find myself dreaming of the day I can experience that love without the stress of reminding little ones to behave in public.
Here are some reasons why grandparents often take the crown over parents:
- They’ve lived a full life and understand that life is more about building Lego towers and embarking on spontaneous hikes than just doing laundry.
- Your child feels like a superstar around them. Unlike when they’re with me—where they might feel like an average pop star—grandparents make them feel like rock legends just for using the bathroom correctly.
- Discipline? Not on their agenda. Why put a kid in timeout when you can simply hand them a cookie? Cookies are the ultimate tear-stopper and seem like a lot more fun, don’t you think?
- They know which battles are worth fighting—and which ones to sidestep. They’ve learned to avoid the classic trifecta of parenting disputes: booger-eating, vegetable-tasting, and pants-wearing.
- They can chuckle when a child drops a bombshell in public, like declaring that “bad word” is not to be repeated. When it happens to me, I often feel like I need to hide for a year!
- They can take blunt comments like, “Grandpa, you have a big belly!” in stride, usually followed by a sweet invitation for cuddles and storytime.
- They get to shower kids with treats minus the guilt. Ice cream for lunch? Gummy bears for an afternoon snack? Soda with dinner? Sign me up for life at Grandma’s!
- They live in the moment, without the worry of how three hours of TV might turn a child into a future sociopath. It’s all about cozy snuggles and amusing (or annoying) commentary on life.
- They come in fresh and energized, ready to play, unlike parents who might be bogged down by exhaustion. They know the ropes and have already navigated through the game of parenting successfully.
- They recognize that life is fleeting. Parents often get caught up in the responsibilities of raising kids, forgetting how quickly they grow up. Grandparents cherish every sticky kiss and squeaky “I love you,” understanding that these moments won’t last forever.
Grandparents remind us to enjoy the chaos and laughter, and perhaps we could all learn a thing or two from their approach to life.
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In summary, whether it’s their whimsical approach to parenting or their ability to make every moment count, grandparents bring a unique joy to their grandchildren’s lives that parents can certainly admire and learn from.