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How Becoming a Parent Shifted My Perspective on My Own Folks
As much as I might grumble about my child’s cheeky attitude, I can’t help but remember how much I put my own parents through during my youth. I had strong opinions on everything from the superiority of neon-colored bikes to the absolute necessity of wearing platform sneakers. I was convinced my parents were just plain uncool.
Fast forward to adulthood, and after becoming a parent myself, I was in for a surprise: my parents weren’t lame at all! In fact, joining the “Parenting Club” transformed them into my newfound partners in crime. Now, my mom and I share everything—from the best ways to deal with stubborn stains to the trials of raising spirited children. Can you believe it?
With our relationship now on a completely different level, here are seven ways it has changed:
- I’ve grown to appreciate Mom’s Fashion Choices.
I live in comfy pants—whether they’re sweatpants, jeans, or yoga gear. Yes, I’m aware it’s a classic mom stereotype, but they’re perfect for hiding those little imperfections while keeping me stylishly comfortable. - I actively seek my parents’ wisdom.
Gone are the days of tuning them out. Now, I find myself calling them for advice on urgent matters like, “Why do my kids always scream when I try to make a phone call?” Our shared parenting experiences have brought us closer. - Their creative ways of saying “no” now seem brilliant.
After a long day, all I can manage is a weary “no” to my kids’ endless requests. But my parents’ clever tactics to deflect demands now feel like a stroke of genius to me. - I understand their early bedtimes.
After wrangling the kids into pajamas, reading bedtime stories, and making countless trips to the bathroom, I’m utterly drained by 10 p.m. But there’s still more to do! - I find myself lecturing my kids.
I swore I wouldn’t turn into my mom, yet here I am, discussing manners, cleanliness, and the importance of outdoor play. It’s amusing how those words I once heard from my mom have now become my own. - Dinner conversations with my parents are a dream.
Listening to them chat over dinner is a delight compared to the chaos at my house. My kids can’t seem to focus on anything that isn’t about their favorite superheroes or dinosaurs! - Having survived toddlerhood, I respect my parents more than ever.
Nothing compares to the rollercoaster that is raising toddlers. If my parents managed to stay calm and loving through my challenging years, it’s clear their love was boundless.
Some days, when my children are particularly rambunctious, I find myself wanting to call my folks and apologize for my past mischief. I can only hope that someday, my kids will experience this eye-opening realization too.
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In summary, becoming a parent has completely reshaped my relationship with my own parents. I’ve gained not only a deeper appreciation for their challenges but also a strong desire to connect and learn from their experiences.