Some folks really go overboard when they’re around babies. Wait, that’s not quite the right way to start. Let’s try again.
People often act in amusing ways around infants. They coo, they giggle, and they make all sorts of silly sounds. Even the most serious person can’t seem to help but contort their face into expressions that would make a comedian proud. It’s just instinctual — like breathing itself.
I know this firsthand because my partner and I recently welcomed a 3-month-old baby girl into our lives. It’s a huge change, and she feels like both a bundle of joy and a tiny little whirlwind of chaos. Despite the sleepless nights, all it takes is one of her smiles to make us feel like we’re on cloud nine. You know, that warm feeling that makes you forget about everything else?
However, some visitors to our cozy NYC apartment (which we sometimes jokingly refer to as our storage unit) are a bit too eager when they come to meet our baby. They lean in close, making a ruckus of exaggerated sounds and flapping their mouths like they’re auditioning for a slapstick comedy. And sure enough, our little one giggles at their antics.
My partner and I often remark, “Wow, you made her laugh!” or “She seems to enjoy your company!” but truth be told, we’re also thinking, “You look a bit ridiculous right now.”
But here’s the twist: those joyous giggles can quickly turn into shrill cries once the visitors leave. Why is that?
Imagine you’re lounging in your favorite chair, feeling cozy after a satisfying snack. You might even be ready to take a little nap. Then suddenly, a stranger bursts in, making a scene like a wild animal. Before you can even process what’s happening, they’re invading your personal space, making bizarre noises and silly faces. If this were on the street, someone might consider calling for help!
Then, just like that, they’re gone. You’re left confused and a little overwhelmed. “Who was that? Why were they so close? Did they leave me with more questions than answers?” This sudden shift can turn a peaceful moment into a whirlwind of emotions for a baby, who’s still trying to grasp this chaotic world.
We often think babies are too young to understand, but I believe they’re processing a lot more than we realize. Their imaginations are running wild, and it can be a bit too much for their tiny minds to handle.
So, to everyone planning to visit and meet our little blessing, please take it easy. A simple hello, a friendly smile, and maybe a little soft playfulness go a long way. Consider how you’d feel if someone you didn’t know was acting like a wild person just inches from your face.
I know you can’t exactly fit into baby shoes, but you get the idea!
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In summary, while it’s wonderful to see excitement surrounding a new baby, a little calmness and consideration can make the experience much more enjoyable for everyone involved.