Insights Gained from My Toddler’s Fascination with His Anatomy

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My Toddler’s Unending Curiosity About His Body

by Jessica Lee

Updated: Jan. 31, 2020

Originally Published: Feb. 18, 2017

I wholeheartedly believe in nurturing my children with a healthy understanding of their bodies and sexuality. I strive to foster an environment where they feel comfortable asking questions without shame. Self-exploration is a natural part of growing up, and I want to support my little ones as they navigate this phase.

Yet, I must admit, my 3-year-old’s constant interest in his anatomy is pushing my patience to the limit. It feels like every time I glance over, there he is, either with his hands in his pants or making it very clear he’s got a favorite spot. Honestly, if it’s taking you forever to tidy up your room because one hand is busy, maybe it’s time to reconsider your priorities.

In an effort to understand this phase, I’ve engaged my son in a lighthearted, age-appropriate dialogue about why his anatomy seems to be on his mind so much. Here are some of his amusing insights:

1. “My hands are cold.”
   When I suggest he use his pockets to warm up, he insists, “No! My pockets are warm, but my penis is hot!” Well, that’s a tough argument to counter, right? Perhaps I should consider getting him some hand warmers for his next birthday.
2. “No one else will play with me.”
   It seems like his anatomy is a trusty companion. When playmates are absent, he jokingly declares, “If you guys won’t join me, I’ll just chill with my friend down here.” It’s amusing yet oddly concerning!
3. “I don’t want to lose it.”
   He shows no attachment to his toys, but when it comes to his anatomy, he’s protective! “What if it goes somewhere?” he frets. I assure him, “It’s not going anywhere, buddy!”
4. “I’m just tired, Mom.”
   While some kids seek comfort in a favorite blanket or toy, my son finds solace in his anatomy. At this rate, he’ll be quite cozy for a long time!
5. “Because Dad does it.”
   Ah, the classic justification! While his father might have some habits I wish to discourage, this one isn’t ideal. “Let’s not follow in Dad’s footsteps on this one, alright?”

I get it—having a penis must be an amusing adventure. I continue to encourage him to keep his explorations private, but somehow, he has an uncanny ability to appear in public places, hands-on. Please bear with us as we navigate this phase together and remember, this too shall pass.

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Summary:
In this lighthearted exploration of toddler curiosity, the author shares amusing anecdotes from her 3-year-old son’s frequent fascination with his anatomy. Balancing understanding and boundaries, she navigates this common phase of child development while recognizing the importance of open conversations about bodies.