I recently made a trip to the grocery store and picked up a pine-scented candle that I couldn’t wait to light when I got home. It was the best part of my day, and I don’t care if it seems like I should be seeking out more thrilling experiences.
At 45 years old, I’ve come to understand myself — I find joy in the simple things: a straightforward meal, the company of friends who appreciate my love for fast food (no fancy sauces for me; I’m all about ketchup). I’m the person who brings onion dip made from Lipton soup mix and sour cream to gatherings, preferring it over elaborate hors d’oeuvres that require hours of preparation and a small fortune.
I’m not one for fancy experiences; I’d choose a cheesy rom-com over a documentary any day. A quiet Friday night for me might include an early bedtime and some time spent watching the Lifetime Channel. My home is decorated with affordable finds from Amazon and Target, and I’m not bothered by what others do regarding vacations, kids’ camps, or the latest tech trends.
I’ve always found excitement in mundane activities, like whipping up a banana smoothie with a new blender or eagerly anticipating pizza night. People have lovingly teased me for my simplicity, but I’ve never felt the urge to explore the world. I don’t yearn for adventures like bungee jumping or cliff diving; I cherish my routines. I have zero interest in picking up a new language, either.
For a long time, I felt awkward about my unadventurous nature. It seemed everyone around me was seeking more excitement, while I was perfectly content with a quick grocery stop and a new recipe to try. The little things bring me joy, fueling my spirit. I won’t apologize for not needing a busier life.
You can keep your trendy cocktails; I’m satisfied with a Diet Coke while my friends enjoy homemade mojitos or expensive champagne. A trip to Target is my ideal “me time,” and I don’t need a spa day or weekend getaway to recharge. I find joy in a solo drive, free from anyone else’s schedule, just enjoying the sights.
I’m not a fan of upscale dining. Small plates? No thanks! My friends know better than to invite me to those places. I prefer a hearty burger and fries over an artistically plated dish that looks like a science experiment. Just give me extra cheese on my pizza, maybe some pepperoni, but keep the exotic toppings away.
When it comes to clothing, I shop wherever I find what I like, whether it’s Walmart or Nordstrom. I don’t mind a no-name brand; the savings are substantial, and I don’t care if my kids feel embarrassed.
I’m not drawn to extravagant getaways. While they might be enjoyable, I’m perfectly content at a Hampton Inn with a hot tub and a large TV. I don’t require room service or gourmet meals waiting for me. A drive-thru sausage, egg, and cheese sandwich is more my style.
I skip pricey manicures in favor of my press-on nails, which I can do at home while watching a rom-com and indulging in some off-brand ice cream. My hair routine is just as simple; I enjoy my Pantene and color my hair at home.
My ideal day? A quick morning romp, a run while listening to a fun podcast, and then hitting up a diner for some deliciously greasy food. Afterward, I’d love a good nap and some mindless TV.
Some may consider me boring, but I’m okay with that. Others have labeled me low-maintenance, but I simply enjoy what many might deem “unfashionable” — like fast food breakfasts and silly TV shows.
The constant messages urging us to “live your best life” or “do something adventurous” can make us feel pressured to chase thrills. While that’s great for some, I prefer to embrace the uncomplicated, untrendy aspects of life. When Wendy’s introduced their pretzel bun, I was there, and the happiness from that experience lasted far longer than my time spent on a fancy dish at a new restaurant.
I’ve even canceled plans to stay in my pajamas and rearrange the furniture. I’d rather enjoy nachos with friends at our go-to Mexican spot than hit a club or hike up a mountain.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m about to binge-watch Dawson’s Creek this weekend, without the kids, while ordering my extra cheese pizza.
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In a world that often glorifies adventure and excitement, I find comfort in the simple joys of life. From enjoying a pine-scented candle at home to savoring fast food, I embrace my low-key lifestyle. I’m no longer apologizing for my preferences or feeling pressured to conform to societal expectations of adventure. Instead, I celebrate the everyday delights that fill my soul, knowing that happiness can be found in the most ordinary moments.