Lessons from My Mother on Overcoming Adversity and Achieving Goals

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In the summer of 1987, my mother found herself driving a rusty Renault Encore, a vehicle that was not only small and unattractive but also prone to frequent breakdowns. Being aware of our financial struggles, I often asked her to drop me off a block away from school to avoid the embarrassment of being seen in that car.

With our limited resources, taking the car to a mechanic was out of the question. One evening, after grappling with the car’s persistent issues, my mother saw an infomercial and decided to invest in a set of DIY auto repair books. Her goal was clear: she would learn to fix the car herself.

Over the course of that summer, my mother transformed from a novice to a capable mechanic. She taught herself to change tires, perform oil changes, and repair the emergency brake. She managed to jump-start the car numerous times, replaced various components, and by the end of summer, we wondered if there was anything that could finally put that Encore out of commission.

As the new school year approached, my mother received a call from the university. She had been selected for an interview from the temporary secretary applicant pool. This opportunity could provide enough income to alleviate our worries about food and utilities. However, there was a concern: would the Encore make the drive?

The day before the interview, my mother practiced typing drills at our electric typewriter, preparing herself for the questions she might face. A neighbor kindly lent her a professional navy blue dress and beige pumps for the occasion. On the morning of the interview, she hurried through our routine and dropped me off early at school to avoid traffic, her anxiety about the car’s reliability palpable.

While I spent my first day at school chatting with friends about summer adventures and boys, I couldn’t shake my worries about my mother. That evening, she recounted her interview experience. Arriving 15 minutes early, she made a positive impression on the HR representative. The hour-long interview went smoothly, and she felt confident answering questions about her work experience, future aspirations, and self-assessed weaknesses.

After the interview, as my mother returned to the parking lot, the Encore emitted a terrible noise, and a puff of smoke signaled the muffler had fallen off. Without hesitation, she took off her borrowed shoes, grabbed a floor mat from the back seat, and knelt down to reattach the muffler right there in the parking lot. The HR lady, who had just interviewed her, noticed and approached. My mother confidently declined assistance, stating, “Thank you for your kindness, but I can handle this. It just takes perseverance.”

Ultimately, she was hired on the spot. A few months later, the car finally broke down for good, but from that day forward, I was never ashamed to be dropped off at school again.

In conclusion, my mother’s determination and resourcefulness taught me invaluable lessons about grit and self-sufficiency in the face of adversity. For those interested in exploring methods of conception, resources such as Cleveland Clinic’s guide on intrauterine insemination and Make a Mom’s fertility boosters can offer further insights. Additionally, for tips on home insemination techniques, check out our post on home insemination kits.